Flat chest or breast implants?

[Anonymous]

I've been insecure about my tiny boobs for years now (I'm just about an A cup) and I'm considering getting surgery. It's not that I consider my boobs unattractive, they're just really really small and make me look flat chested. If I had surgery I would go no larger than a C cup so it's not like I'd have huge balloons bobbing up and down on my chest. And I'd like it to look as natural as possible. I'm sure it would give me so much more confidence as well yet I don't like the idea of having something fake inside me. I feel really stuck. Anyway, what would you advise me to do? I'm really interested in your opinions :)

[JudithK]

People here are hypocrites sugar coating liers! Small breast are ugly, period. You know, I know everyone knows and cannot deny it. Forget that nature apeal falacy : nature is not good or fair. We are in 2018, so there is tecnology to correct nature´s mistakes (braces, for both teeth and bones, heart peacemakers, cochlear implants, insulin, cancer treatment etc). Nobody is natural anymore- so "natural beauty" or whatever is such a naive belief! (We all here use vaccines, medicines, cosmetics, internet etc to have a much better life than the one nature intended for us.). The man telling you to not get implants are the same that go crazy over women who have them hahah. Just look at their muses, famous porn, foruns. Google Mia Khalif and see how she was before her 700cc silicone, do you really think she would be so popular without it? Today there are teardrop implants, so you just have the fake ball look with you want. Girl, dont listen to that new age yada yada about "natural beauty", "interior beauty" etc. You are the one surfering, they cannot feel your pain. Have the dam surgery and make yourself happy! What if you were born without teeth? (it is a real condition). Would they tell you to just deal with it, accept? At this moment, you are like a men with micropenis, no mather what people say they will always hide the truth of how much it mathers in social and sexual interactions because they know how hurtful it is to adress that. But you can solve your "micropenis" with a simple surgery and be free. Dont try to hide yourself from the truths of life, it s impossible. Dont loose your young years surfering, trying to "acept" something so hurtfull and so easy to solve in a mather of hours. We just have one life to be happy, go get what you want!!

[dancer]

Hey sweetie !

Smaller boobs are more sensual,sexy,beautiful,then any silicon's!

Any small boobs are better then big boobs as silicon's...

That is not just my meaning , I'm professional dancer and all in my dancing group we all have

A and B cup...Is well known that dancers supposed to have smaller boobs but in my private life my boobs are my pride just because they are natural, smaller and very perky ..

Who say that only big boobs are sexy !? Many guy"s like smaller boobs ! And if someone love you , let him love you for who you are not what you boobs and ass is like !

But you have other options not just silicon's , ask your doctor ! And see what you can find out ..If nothing from it don't make you happy then I say girl buy your self boobs ! But not always means that will make you more happy and it will solve your problems , as most of the girls do think that . One's day do the surgery and all the fess is away you will still find your self not happy because your life is not going to change in any way ...

So think about it . Take your time ! Talk with the right people about it , and if you really want to do it than go to the best doctors and ask all the questions ! Is your body and is the best think you will ever have ... Be proud if it !

so GOOD LUCK GIRL !

[hippygirl]

Hunny Don’t be silly you should love you for you Breast implants are hard work ie: Don’t bother considering laying on your stomach as you can cause them to erupt! Not to mention every boss I have ever had has had them done! I'm a A cup and I love them to bits and so does my boyfriend. boobs are just fat and mussel you can simply help by gaining wait that’s all.They looks fake as well… They also these days have alternatives for making breasts larger…Check out the net!

Oh and to have them look nature you have them placed in front of the mussel they just look ridicules and with age they will sag to picture that!

[AJtogo]

It really depends on you feel about how it would help you. If you really believe that implants are the solution to a self-esteem issue then go for it. It may be compared to having something like bad teeth; it's what you were given but you don't have to live with it and there are proceedures available to fix it.

However, I do not suggest that you fix something that there's nothing wrong with. Many girls are worried about their boob size and that guys won't find them attractive. This is not true. Many guys, myself included, would prefer smaller boobs. In fact, two of the sexiest girls I have ever met in life were A cups; but they carried themselves with confidence.

[AJtogo]

Regarding your update......it's not a fault. Consider guys that are born with a smaller than average penis; they can make up for it with technique and can be better in the sack than a guy who figures all he needs is his big dick. Use your small boobs to your advantage and work on improving areas of yourself that are much more important to guys than boobs.

[Asker]

Thanks... I can see where your coming from. The sexiest guy I ever knew had a small penis but it didn't put me off in the slightest, in fact, it turned me on. Thanks for the advice, you've been really helpful :)

[mav0502]

No no no...the real things are soo much better...and the size of them does not matter at all...i hate to see the fake ones and they just don't do anything to me...Surgery can be dangerous and so can the after effects too...so the size of ur chest doesn;t define who you are, enjoy what you have and I bet they look great...

[dakadan]

Natural is best for me. If you don't believe me then go to Burning Man. They have a bike ride for women only called Critical Tits and it is all about women taking their power around their breasts. It is incredible to see literally thousands of women riding their bikes topless. You will notice that everyone is different and all are beautiful. Enjoy what you have and learn to get your self esteem from another source other than some guys perspective.

[smith2267]

Ok, I have to go see this....

[dave216]

It isn't a fault. It is pretty. It is the real you. Why mess it up?

[bebebunny143]

i feel the same way I think like 300cc would be good if you got them because ur so small I think boobs are okay if you don't get like 600cc then it gets a little gross.

[l-hedoniste]

C. Whatever makes you happiest.

It's never necessary, but if you're happier with than without them, do it.

[chocktachick]

I wish I had such problems! I've been a DDD since 5th grade and I would kill to have an A cup! You get to wear all the most beautiful, stylish, and flattering clothing (like the real supermodels) ; you can do athletic activities no problem; and you get to wear the cutest bras. Not to mention, when you have children, your boob size will increase anyway. Please, just say no to implants. Getting daily heat rashes under your breasts is not worth being ogled by jerks.

[farmhand99]

dont worry about lloks

ifsomeone likes you they will like ui for who you are not what you look like

[FRANK]

Enjoy what you've got! Many men prefer small ones, and unlike big ones, they usually keep there shape. There's more to a nice pair than just size! They also come in different shapes, and nipples, (the most erongenous part) vary enormously.

Fake tits always look fake!

[Marrajoong]

Even if i wear 32A, i still can put a pair of socks in each side. :). Hell yeah

[TedEBear]

And I will always have an undersized member. But that's what god gave me. I'm comfortable with who I am and won't take anything to enhance it. I accept it.

[Jeep-V]

Omg you can't believe how many guys respect and love girls who respect themselves and don't even touch surgery. I know it might be hard to live with the stares but you've just got to ignore them be confident about what you look like.

[hunglowman4you]

Are you more toward 24 years old and do you smoke? Have you tried breast enlargement pills? ty..

[Asker]

I'm 18 years old and smoke. I do think that I've stopped developing by now- my mum's flat chested as well. And yes, I'm using some breast enhancing pills at the moment and they seem to be working but very very slowly. What do you think of A cups? If the girl was attractive anyway would you get turned off by her breast size?

[hunglowman4you]

well if your a A cup size you must be a small woman...

like 5'4 , 100 lbs...

i think I would need your correct stats before I give you my thoughts on your size body.

[Asker]

I'm actually 5'6 and 112ibs. I am very slim, I like the rest of my body but my boobs are still tiny...

[Flat4]

Small boobs or a flat chest isn't a 'fault'. The fact your body is in proportion is what counts and the poll reflects that.

[smith2267]

I just want to put my name on this, I voted B. I want everyone to know that I discourage this sort of surgery. It looks unnatural, ties up health care resources that could be better used, carries health risks, and does not make a woman more sexually appealing.

[jacquesvol]

A-cups? I've been happy with much less (yes, you villains, she was old enough: 19)

It's the girl that counts, not the cup size

[chickitabanana]

I like that, "its the girl that counts, not the cupsize"

[mmxximo]

I love A cup breast! don't change it! I'm sure you're lovely the way you are! I have a tiny penis :)

[axmerc]

My girlfriend has A cups, and I wouldn't have her change them for the world.

[miss-booty]

i voted yes to surgery because I believe in it.. I'm planning on doing it myself when I'm older (my boobs are a A-cup too).. for how long are you going to feel body-consious and unattractive because of them?! I'm a person who believes in doing things that make me feel good about myself ... if you don't like it, don't do it gal... in the end theyr still gonna be YOUR boobs (whetha you change em or not) I mean cumon, lets be realistic,learning to love and accept your body just ain't easy sometimes...

[Anonymous]

I think it depends about proportions! I'm medium sized, more smaller than big. And I love it. Sometimes it's about shape too

[Anonymous]

Wow, I clicked on this question because I can really relate to you.

and honestly I have to say, I expected very different answers from the guys.

I'm 17, about 5 feet, 87lbs.(perfectly healthy, high metabolism) and I'm a 32A.

I've never met another girl with a chest as flat as mine, and it's always made me feel insecure everywhere I go.

I'm happy and a little more confident now that I've seen this.

I appreciate it, thanks for asking this question.

Oh and don't get the surgery!

[Anonymous]

Hey, its not a 'fault', I understand your insecurity (I used to feel insecure when I was skinny, even though I could still attract girls) but some guys are attracted to 'flat-chested' women. Kate Moss & Kiera Knightley, that says it all.

[Anonymous]

Believe me, this is not a "fault." The girl I am in love with has very small breasts, and to be honest, I wouldn't change them if I could. She's beautiful and I think they just make her look even more adorable. I do not find large breasts attractive at all. Fake ones look bad, too. Girls seem to think bigger is better, but to be honest, that is not at all true. Everyone likes different things, and I promise you you'll find someone who loves you for who you are, A-cups and all.