For the girls....the best way a guy can give oral sex to a girl?

[michigan2489]

I always wanted to know ...., what do girls lige better, being fingered while doing it, just the tongue or both? Any info would be great. Thanks

[Snake99]

Depends on the female, some like fingers, some don't, some don't even like you going down on them at all.

But the universal get'r done,

Do you know how to find the clit? The clit is under hood of skin that looks kinda like a upside down Y shape

It is very sensitive and if you touch it too roughly it will hurt her

The area a half inch or so above the clit is where you should be licking lightly, not hard, sucking firmly but not hard, licking till you think your tongue is gonna fall off and your jaw goes numb. An mix it up, fast flicks again gently, then a nice slow motion, ect. Tease the outer edges with light licking and sucking. Be firm but going lightly and gently cannot be stressed enough, she should slowly get wet and the clit should start to poke out a bit, that means she is on her way to the promise land you promised to take her to. As she gets more aroused its time to start teasing the clit out, but still the main focus is the area above it, just start going back and forth between the 2. Usually when she gets close to and as she climax's I'll start sucking on the clit very firmly, if you pull it off successfully she'll be putty in your hands. Remember Eddie Murphy Raw? "OOOO, I got this mother f***er now"

Generally I will tease for extended amount of time, the longer and steadier building up to climax the more powerful the climax. But don't tease too long she'll get p*ssed! lol

You really got feel that one out, but the rest should come easy

[mooglelove]

This guy SERIOUSLY knows how it's done.

[foolish_beloved]

I tend to like basically what this guy is saying except just BELOW the clit is far more sensitive and feel best

[nenemomo]

Yeah, I'm impressed. nothing like a man who knows his anatomy

[attractiveontarioguy]

just don't focus TOO much on the clit! if you feel the clit gettin soft or she pulls her body away its too much(kinda like when they lick your head after you cum). before you jump on the clit, tease the shit outta her kissing and licking up te thies, the goal here is to make her beg for it and ram your head into her puss. trace the big lips with your tongue and tease her clit, flick it once or twice and slowly lside your toungue into her puss (they love that) grab her ass with both hands and pull her onto your face,m slowly suck(not too hard) her clit...you will feel it get harder when she's turnded on) and try the alphabet! seriously, go through "shaping": the alphabet with your tongue! the key here is really paying attention to HER body langueage, if she leans in, keep doing what your doing, don't change it and don't stop. if she pullls back STOP

good luck

the clit comander lmao

[confusedlove]

All I have to say is WOW...nice response....Whatever girl you have is a very lucky one. lol

[babyCorazón]

Im with confusedlove aha... sooo lucky haha the alphabet thing - brings back old memories of first timeeee oralsex(: hahaha - clit comander... that name could go far... that's so sad aha. xx -hdj<3

[mizmykel]

Wow Ah-mazing! I should make my boyfriend read this!

[dasouthernicon]

Ima havta try that mahself.... the alphabet that is...

[confusedlove]

I have said this before in another question but here you go again...Just think about the "alphabet" try doing it right over the clit. To make it even better try using your fingers inside her while licking the clit, but make sure you have your finger nails cut(you can cut /tear the skin easily). After she starts squirming go up to her neck and kiss it a bit and blow into her ears you can even nibble on her ear lobe a bit, then go back down kissing her body every inch of the way back down to her clit. The whole time you go up to her neck you should continue using your hand on her clit or her breasts, you need to give them some attention aswell. Well good luck. Let me know how it goes!

[John-Bee]

Could you PLEASE elaborate on "think about the alphabet" I'm having enough trouble thinking about the task at hand (so to speak)

[confusedlove]

LOL......use your tongue and write out the letters of the alphabet starting with "a" directly over the clit.....you can use capital letters or small letters...up to you...or you can mix it up......does this make sense???? :)

[Deeplove55]

Omg! that is a great idea! I bet that feels great.

[thelittlethings]

All guys focus on the clit WAY too much. Make sure to touch every bit of her with your tongue. Swich back and forth between the clit and the lips. I love when my guy slides his tongue inside of me. Fingers for sure! But not the whole time. Use a lot of variations, fingers, no fingers, clit, lips. Also, suck on her lips, that is amazing. Nibble a little too. Moan while you eat her and it does two things, first we know your enjoying yourself which makes it better for us, and it causes a vibration which feels fabulous.

[Anonymous]

Something guys do wrong easily is they aren't rough enough. Think of how rough you are with yourself when you masturbate, when it comes to fingering us, we need the same thing. On the other hand, you need to treat the clit like its the most sensitive thing in the world, which frankly it is (8,000 nerve endings in that one spot ALONE)! A lot of guys don't think about it, but sucking the clit gently actually feels as good or better to a lot of girls than flicking it because it's something we can't do by ourselves.

[eyembatmanz]

Try using Pop Rocks. I mean, if they're awesome for guys, why not for girls?

[2befriends]

I can only answer for myself I like when the guy using the finger in and out and licking me at the same time such a turn on.

[redheadsgf]

girls really like it when you finger them, and using the tongue. that really turns them on. you have to make sure to focus on "certain areas" when you are performing oral sex though. ask what feels best to her try out some different things.

[Anonymous]

i say focus on the clit, anytime a guy eats me out I feel like they never no what to do or where to focus, soo 2 make it simple: lick the clit while fingering, id be in heaven haha good luck =)