For guys and girls: How do you get out of the state of arousal?

[Anonymous]

Tell me how to get rid of it.

[dave216]

That is a bit like asking how I might exit from the drivers seat of my car without opening one of the doors at either end of the front seat. There are other avenue of escape, but common sense and logic dictate that I should not avail myself of them while the doors are still operational.

You do not give a reason for your reluctance to alleviate your arousal in the usual manner. I suppose it is possible you have no arms and do not have a person in your life with whom you share intimately. Other than those two possibilities I am afraid I do not imagine a truly valid reason for your stipulation.

It is a well documented fact that masturbation is harmless. In fact it is very beneficial too your health both emotionally and physically. The benefits are well documented and proliferated all over the Internet. If you can't locate them, ask for help.

It is your choice, arousal happens, you can alleviate it or bear it.

[Asker]

I just don't like to do those kinds of things. Isn't there something else I can do?

[dave216]

"I just don't like to do those kinds of things." I'm afraid that is a rather childish answer. It is very non specific and tells us nothong. Are you unablable to voice what is is that you don't like or perhaps do you not know the answer yourself?

[chico]

She doesn't want an answer. she wants someone to agree with her.

[Asker]

Agree with me? What is it to agree on? The question was "How to get rid of it without sex or masturbation", if you don't know simply do not answer. God, I love how everyone is judging me :(

[regular-guy]

It would help to know what got you into the state of arousal, because the easiest way is to avoid things that trigger arousal. But from your responses to the other questions I am going to assume that this is somewhat an unprovoked and unwanted arousal. I-Hedoniste, the anonymous girl, and the comment by samiam90 are good. I always found that getting good and busy with something (e.g., homework, cleaning, exercise, going out to visit friends, or to go to the store, etc.) would take my mind and body somewhere else and it would pass soon enough.

[samiam90]

have sex? masturbate? for girls it's kind of easier to do it mentally without getting physical just preoccupy yourself with something and soon enough you'll forget about it but umm... masturbating might be the best option to get out of that state happily haha

[Asker]

I meant to say without masturbating or having sex. I don't want to do neither.

[samiam90]

Oh, well in that case... go talk to a parent or some one about something serious. always kills it for me lol

[-StillWater-]

HAHA That's BRUTAL advice! ...but true... ;)

[samiam90]

Lol, it was the first thing that came to mind I apologize ;)

[Anonymous]

yeah, just think of something else. go hang with friends, do homework, just get busy with something. that's how it works for me.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Ummm This is a hard one. (no pun intended) You can try thinking about things that are unbelievably UN-sexy.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

I'm checking back on some of my old answers. Doing a follow up. Was this answer at all helpful to you?

[l-hedoniste]

Like most annoyances, ignore it and it goes away.

[dogeatdog]

Have kids.

[Anonymous]

work out. works for me everytime. I go run my a** off for an hour at the gym and I am good to go.

[Asker]

That's a good idea actually