For the ladies, if a guy hits your cervix during sex it hurts but will it ever not hurt?

I've been dealing with this for a year and she is sad cause it hurts her and I won't go deep anymore so I rarely get off during sex. So I need the wisdom of as many women as I can get, answer anonymously if you want I just need advice cause she won't give up.
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thanks everyone I guess the awanser is it will always hurt if I hit her cervix.
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  • idk what the cervix is... I mean I could look it up, but I don't know what it feels like... my ex was pretty big, and sometimes it would hurt when he would thrust really hard and deep, but it was a good pain... just know when to ease up... then do it agian, then ease up... give her a break from the pain, she should get used to it though, just have some kind of code if its too painful and that's when you slow down...

    • lol women usually don't find out what it is untill a guy hits it, but it is the small tube that connects to the vagina that childern come down.

    • oh.. I don't know if he was hitting it or not...could have been my uterus... I really wish I knew more about these things!

    • Your uterus is beyond your cervix. Like he said, the baby comes through your cervix, but during pregnancy the baby is in the uterus. :P

  • Yeah it hurts and it sucks. The cervix can shift and allow deeper access depending on the position you're in, or even slightly changing the angle. Example- if you like doggie style but she says it hurts too much she can try leaning farther forward or back and see if it relieves any of the pain. You might not beable to go at it too hard until she gets more comfortable knowing which positions she can handle.

    • we have been trying many positions over the last year and the only ones that don't hurt are the ones that get her everywhere and me nowhere. :(

  • link is what it is called when it happens.

    Some women can actually have a cervix that is too low, though. I would tell her to see her doctor. They would have plenty of knowledge and advice to help, so that you two can have a more satisfying sex life. :)

    • it's not to low the entire problem rests with me, she is perfectly average in what will fit b4 contact with her cervix occurs.

    • Gotcha. Ok, thennnn hmmmm. I'm trying to research for you lol. Here, read this: link

    • Ignore the title and start reading at "The vaginal canal in any woman..."

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Most Helpful Guys

  • The same guy can hit the cervix on one women, but not on others. Guess it just depends on how deep she is. Some women actually like it. Some women hate it.

  • Try different angles, try different positions, try getting her to orgasm first then trying, try anal.

    • I would think anal would be a bad idea right now. she's already experiencing some pain from normal sex... If they start playing around with anal without her thinking that types of sex can become more enjoyable or stop hurting, then she may start to think that anal will never be pain free.

    • that route is out she has a surgical scar from when she was a child, oral is out because she is small. been at this for awhile but she just found out how unenjoyable things have become for me.

    • I only threw it out because there are, actually, a few women who find anal _easier_ to do without discomfort. Oral is out because she is small? How 'small' is she in general?

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  • it depends on the position. it hurts like hell when he hits it. you can always tweak the position so you won't hit it and you can still go deep.

    • for me any kind of deep is to deep for her.