For you guys who don't go down on a girl, why don't you?

This question only refers to guys who don't give oral sex. I want to know why and do you think its fair that you want the girl to do it to you but you won't do it to her?
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Ok, guys, I'm not getting the answer to my question. if you do go down, don't answer this question. I'm not asking for what you think about guys who don't. I want to get answers from guys who don't and why.
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  • In my opinion it depends on the guy. Some guys just don't do it. Some guys just do. Lol I feel that oral sex is more intimate then any other part of sex. So unless I feel that the person is with only me and its something long term I won't do it. I think guys have the same mentality too. If they aren't into you then they won't do it. Now if you've been with someone for a long time and they still don't do it. Then maybe you need to have a talk with them. But in general if you do oral on the guy they will want you to do it all the time after. It becomes part of the allowed to have during sex mentality.There's a part of every man that likes to feel they are the dominate species and a girl giving them oral makes them feel this way. It isn't just a physical enjoyment to them, that's just my opinion about it.

  • Assuming you are keeping yourself neat and clean, maybe the reason he's not doing it is because he doesn't know exactly what to do. The female body isn't as obvious as a male body, so while a girl can probably give a mediocre blowjob without knowing anything at all, its probably a little more difficult for a guy to give decent oral on a woman. If this is the case its probably something you can help him change.

    I think you should ask the guy in question either directly or indirectly, that's the only way to know for sure.

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  • Maybe the guy has had a bad experience. But it's definitely not right for you to do it on him, but he not do it on you. I think it CAN BE a good indicator whether he's selfish or not. It isn't always, but it can be. But be up front with him, and ask him if there's anything wrong. He might not want to hurt your feelings. But if a girl takes care of herself, then there should be no reason why a guy shouldn't. But a bad smell or taste can definitely turn a guy off from wanting to do it.

  • Well maybe it's because you're asking the wrong question. I gave you why guys might be like that. You're saying that it's not right and you're you're asking for a guy to first off, admit that he's selfish, and then second, tell you why. That's almost like asking , "For those of you that are racist, why are you racist? "

    • Funny :)

    • Exactly. I'm asking for the reason for it. Just curios to y they don't. Hows that a wrong question?

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  • If it smells bad no guy is going to want to. Make sure its clean.

  • It certainly is not fair, but if you give oral and the guy does not return the favor, ask him is there something wrong with me? Why do you not go down on me? Then I think they will tell you. If they don't go down there and they do not like it, it is time to find another boyfriend.

    • So, I'm assuming you do. And your right. Usually a lot guys do go down on girls but I have come across very few that don't ever do that. They say its nasty but yet they want us to do it. Selfish.

    • I really think you have to go directly to the president. I am sorry you don't have guys here that refuse to go down on women. Frankly, I do not know of any guy who would not. They can stick their penis inside you, but won't go down there?

    • Well, if you are not like that don't answer. If a guy like this happens to read this question, then I wqould like him to answer but if a lot of guys who read this question that does not apply to them, y are you even answering?

  • Guys might not because its easier to get an STD from oral sex on a girl rather then a guy. Because there's always fluids comin out of her. Therefore yeah. I wouldn't go down on a girl if she's not a virgin or didn't lose her virginity to me.

    • Thats not true. Because guys have as much fluid comin out of hem as girls do. It goes both ways. Besides, a lot of guys go down because they actually like it and love to please. Trust me, you are rare to not do that. What one won't do, another will.