Frottage

[Anonymous]

frot·tage (frô-täzh) n. 1. The act of rubbing against the body of another person, as in a crowd, to attain sexual gratification. I did this once a long time ago, when I wa sa teenager. The woman said and did nothing. So I figured she liked it. But now I am wondering. maybe she didn't like it and merely wished to avoid a scene? what I did was sort of rub her crotch tyhrough her pants. And I approached very slowly,so at any point she could have cried "perv" and put an end to it. All these years, I have thought she must have liked it. But now I am wondering. I was reading an online article about frottage, and it suggested that women might put up with it, merely to avoid causing a scene. That is too bad, if that is what happened. I only did it that once, and I always remembered it as her liking it.

[BusyGirl727]

Personally if some random guy just came up to me and started to rub on me, than I'm definitely going to be the girl who causes a scene. This girl must of liked it if you were doing this for most of your bus trip and if she did not show any signs at all of being uncomfortable. So if your feeling bad about it than don't, It is in the past, no need to ponder. I guess I'm just not that far out spontaneous but there are some women that are. Just be careful because you don't want to go catch a charge for touching someone you don't know inappropriately.

[Asker]

Yeah, I know---I had a lot more balls back then. I don't think I'd have the guts today.

[Anonymous]

She liked it! No girl is gonna put up with that if she doesn't want it not to cause a scene. Hmm what's worse "causing a scene to get a perv to quit grinding on you" or to "keep doing it because you like it" lol. Don't worry about it you probably just met another freak ;)

[Shlei3]

Well, I for one would put a stop to it immediately if I didn't like it or I would walk away. That's just me. Why do you think she liked or disliked it besides her not protesting?

[Asker]

That's the only reason I have to think she liked it. the fact that she did not protest.

[Shlei3]

Why does it haunt your thoughts after these many years. If she's like me and didn't protest than I would think she probably liked it. But I don't know her so I can't say.

[Asker]

It haunts my thoughts because I hope it was a positive experience for her.

[Shlei3]

It may be one of those things that will forever be an enigma.

[Asker]

I guess so. I like to think I gave her some pleasure, on that long bus ride. But we never exchanged a word.

[Anonymous]

I experienced the same thing. I hoped that she didn't mind afterwards. She did not say thing afterwards but I still felt awful afterwards. So since I knew the person a bit, I went and saw her and again and told her what happened and apologised. She said accepted my apology and smiled. I will never do it again and I still feel awful. Did I do anything bad and was it froutterism. Was it a bad thing to do? Thanks for your help. I will never do it again and I hope I have become more mature because of it

[Opinion Owner]

In addition she never said "why did you do it?" and never got angry. Is it still alright?

[ArizonaHighways]

I go to a lot of shows/concerts. This "frottage" shit, or whatever term one is using, is f**king annoying when coming from some random guy and unfortunately happens a lot. Last time it happened, I kneed him forcefully enough in his erect, pervert dick to drop him to the floor and then I poured my beer on his face. Another guy threw him to the edge of the crowd and I never saw him again. Does that answer your question?

[xxlastcall]

did you know her?

[Asker]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

Why EVER would she put up with it if she didn't take some sort of pleasure form it as well?!