FWB euphemism for slut / scum?

[Anonymous]

You're essentially having sex with one person (maybe more) whom you don't love and dating other people in the hope that there will be love. The definition of a slut and a scumbag is the same. Doesn't that seem wrong? I sure as hell wouldn't date a guy who's f***ing someone else. Girls would you? Guys, would you date a girl knowing her best mate was f***ing her every week? I know social norms are changing but this cannot be normal. It's dirty and irresponsible. Your thoughts? *Once again I mention this is just my opinion, I do not expect you to conform to what I believe is right. I ask this question for no other purpose than to aid my curiosity. So relax.

[l-hedoniste]

"You're essentially having sex with one person (maybe more) whom you don't love and dating other people in the hope that there will be love."

Wrong. I'm having sex. You're making up the rest.

"The definition of a slut and a scumbag is the same."

I wouldn't know; I have manners, so I don't use that kind of language.

"Doesn't that seem wrong?"

No. Having sex is a normal activity.

"I know social norms are changing but this cannot be normal. It's dirty and irresponsible."

Again, having sex is a normal activity. Pedding in shame and self-hate, *that's* dirty and irresponsible.

Just my opinion.

[Asker]

Yes well our opinions differ greatly

[Disputin_Rasputin]

I understand what you're getting at; but in today's society, sex has lost the moral value that it once had. It used be the greatest sign of trust and love between two people; in essence, giving yourself to him/her.

But now? Sex is everywhere and as such, it's lost all its meaning. Now it's more likely to be associated with this primal instinct of banging somebody and getting off, as opposed to loving someone.

[Disputin_Rasputin]

Thanks for best answer! =)

[Asker]

no woryz, great answer

[lananoel]

The two people engaging in this relationship only need to be screwing each other.. I do not agree with sleeping around at all... the world is far to filthy for that

[TheAnswerer]

I don't think it's wrong.

Take sex out of your post, and insert eating, drinking, sleeping, etc.

"I will not eat any food as long as someone else in the world is eating / has eaten the same food with me."

Why should sex be considered different from al our other needs?

It is, after all, both a physical and emotional need.

[debsman]

I would agree with the slut part if the girl was sleeping around with several people, however as per your post, she is only having sex with the one person. She and the guy have an agreement to have sex with no strings, for whatever the reason. Call it a service if you will. Part of that agreement is the sex stops if either one meets someone they want to get serious with. If they practice safe sex, no harm done. Plus at adds to the experience aspect part of it.