Gagging during blowjob?

Whenever I give my boyfriend a blowjob he holds my hair and moves my head for for. The last couple of times he has been pushing my head down hard and making me gag. And sometimes he just holds it down there. Is this normal? I don't really like gagging but if it turns him on I'm willing to do it. Should I tell him something about it?
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  • I'd say it's pretty normal except you need to tell him not to push so hard. Usually, when my boyfriend pushes my head down, it's his come that might cause me to gag because he's so deep rather than by his pushing. It doesn't really bother me that much because I always swallow and I've gotten to expect it most of the time. Sometimes I like the feeling and excitement of it. It really turns him on too and to me that's just part of giving a good blowjob. I wouldn't want him thinking I didn't really like it. Yeah, just tell him to let up some and to nott push your head down that hard or so far.

  • I would say - Spend time teasing him... when you let your tongue dance around him (and you are in control) you can still go all the way down but on your terms. Clearly he likes the deep throat but if you tease him a lot before hand and make him crazy then he is less likely to "dominate you". That way you can compromise and deep throat him without him holding your head all the way at the base without gagging...

    HAVe FUN!

    I hope that helpped - a bit

  • If it bothers you, then tell him. If he can't respect your needs, then he's useless. However, if you can handle it if he likes it a lot, do it yourself when you feel comfortable with it.

    Some guys like their women to gag because it makes them feel like they're bigger. (Sorry guys, but I got this from a guy who liked it...)

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  • It's normal but a bit inconsiderate if you hate it. It feels amazing when you gag on his cock which is why he holds you down there. If you'd like to deep throat him without gagging or gagging under control. this may help.

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7404-blow-jobs-tips-from-a-deep-throat-queen

  • He's doing it because you sucking his WHOLE **** feels good. Before he has a chance to push you down do it yourself. Move you head down and hold it there, it feels great. Also, move his hands down to your boobs or tell him to jerk off while you lick on his balls

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  • some guys believe it or not get turned on by getting gagged on

    and if it bothers you to have him that deep in your throat that you gag, let him know

    he shouldnt be forcing you to take him deeper if you're not comfortable doing that

    • Correct! He should NOT! In fact, he should have discussed it with her before he EVER tried it On a side note, I do like the feel of a girl gagging on mine.

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  • It's normal.

    He likes to feel in control and it makes it feel better when you take more of it in.

    If you really don't like it..then tell him and I'm sure he will understand.

  • It sounds to me like he is into it for his own pleasure & not considering your pleasure/pain/discomfort.. He's been watching too many raunchy porno films. Tell him what samlok10 said.

    If he does not stop then reevaluate your relationship!

    • Agree he has to consider ur feelings too you are in a relation not just for sex or maybe he doesn't know he is doing that and it bothers you so you ve to tell him

  • If you don't like it then yes say something to him. It is normal for guys to want a deep throat blow job and letting him do this is a big turn on for him, but if you don't like it then don't do it and tell him how you feel.

  • You should definitely tell him about it. If you're going to choke somebody with your c*ck, etiquette demands that you ASK them first.

    • Agreed

    • Heheheh I love ur comment

  • when a girl goes deep, the sensation is much different and can be a huge turn on. don't puke on him tho ;)

  • Its normal. and my boyfriend used to do it to me too. but I told him I couldn't stand it and to let me do my job! lol and now we have no problems! he gets what he wants, and how I want to give it!

  • maybe you should talk to him about it.

  • when I was a child I was kidnaped and the guy made me give him a blowjob and he did the same thing its like he's raping you.

  • guys are stupid. I found a guy who won't do that, he just moans, and it super sexy because I get to do all the work and make him feel really good. if they're pushing your head down they are super retarded and dumb and should watch a movie on how to get a blowjob rather than a movie on how to push someones head into your crotch.

  • yeah gag the freak out

  • If you don't like it, you should. He probably learned how to have sex from porn videos. That probably influences his idea of what is hot, and also what is normal.

  • tie him up and have your way with him get in control and deep throat him when you want to teasing and having no control during a blowjob drive me wild personally

  • If you don't like it, just tell him. Since you're not saying anything, he obviously doesn't think you have a problem with it. Personally, I love it. I like being dominated by my man.

  • he probably wanted a deepthroat...

  • well then dont' do it if it hurts you

  • my boy frend did this to me before too but he dint push too far down tha I was gagging... but now when ever I give him a bj I always make sure I go down as far as I can so he doesn't have to push me down.. I think they just get caught up in the moment and they can't help themselves you shud take it as a compliment reli that he gets reli turned on by it..

  • I'll say this, the urge to do that may be normal. But, most guys are concerned enough for their partners well being that they would not do it.

    It is a little troubling that he would do that to you without your permission.