hmmm..Well I'm not going to lie,the love of my life doesn't have an average size penis either but hey it really doesn't matter if you love the person. Sometimes it disappoints me that I never had sex with someone with like a huge penis haha but then I snap back to love.but seriously it isn't a big deal.so don't worry about..Just find a way to please her with what you got. You can
0 0 0 0How small is it?
You don't know what you're missing...
I'm a virgin, and I've never done anything with a guy, but I'm just going to go ahead and answer this anyways... no. As long as you have one- all I'm worried about. It's not the size of the ship it's the motion of the ocean. At least that's what everyone tells me.
0 0 0 0I personally don't care about the size. But I like them 'wider' or thicker.
I just think it feels better. Idk. But my boyfriend is pretty average but he's also really wide too.
But I honestly don't think most girls really care about that. (:0 0 0 0What would be a good 'wide' size?
Umm.. This probably isn't very helpful but I'm not sure.. I just think that if you're wider than you are longer, it's a good thing(:
Not if a guy is one inch long and two inches wide lol.
Honestly, I could care less. Girls care way less about that than guys want to believe. What the penis is attached to is far more important (i.e. you) and how you use it matters way more than how big it is.
0 0 0 0C'mon I totally agree but if it didn't matter why do people continue to talk about it. Why do women make comments or get excited when they see a big package? Yes its personality that matters most but lets face it a great personality with a big d*ck is better than just a great personality. The latter is what most women call "friends". LOL.
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Focus more on technique and stamina, since those are more important and they're things you can control. Forget about the size. Girls aren't going to laugh you out of the bedroom if you know what you're doing with it. (And at 4.5 that's nothing to worry about anyway)
0 0 0 0its all about the thickness and just rub her clit and she'll be moaning in no time. 4.5 inch isn't THAT bad. average is 5.5 so you don't have to see a doctor or anything.
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5 1No I'm not really picky about that...it doesn't really matter.
0 0 0 0In my case, not a turn off. I'm petite and don't really enjoy anything above 6 inches so I'd be cool with it.
0 0 0 0So somethign small like 4.5 inches would be ok for someone ur size?
Size shouldn't matter but if you want get a penis enlarger.
0 0 0 0nope, you can be much rougher with a smaller penis and that is a turn ON! plus there are many many techniques and positions to make it feel bigger if you want. if you care about someone penis size does not matter.
0 0 0 0So to you what would be a good size?
Umm... like I said the size of your penis does not matter so much. My current boyfriend is a little above average and he sometimes hurts me.
its not about the size, it's how you work it
0 1 0 0I agree on that
Its not a turn off but more of a disappointment type thing, but not like a bad disappointment to where they'd care a lot. If the girl cares about you then the size really doesn't matter.
0 0 0 1Lol what kind of disappointment is not a bad thing? 4.5 is not that bad man. It's a little below average but you're only about half an inch below the lower end of the average. Besides, girth matters more than length. Not to mention the great majority of nerve endings in a vagina are in the first 3 inches, so you got all you really need to pleasure a girl, just gotta learn how to work it. You'll probably have to work harder at it than a guy with a bigger one, but that's just how it goes.
So what would be considered 'small' or a bad size?
Well you know how some guys have ones that are barely thicker than your finger? That's what I'd consider a bad size. As for small, there really isn't a bad size because it still gets the same results during sex, its just that its nice and more satisfying to a girl to get that "filled" feeling. She'll still be satisfied with any size, its just more pleasure.
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