GF wants me to make her gag during BJ, is this normal?

Question

Have always tried to avoid this, now she's actually asking me to purposefully make her gag. Not just a small gag either. All the way to the point where there are tears in her eyes and she heaves clear thick liquid. Is this safe? Are there any other girls here that do the same? Why?Confused because I thought guys were supposed to avoid this from happening.

Seenthatmovietoo · Accepted Answer

You happen to be "Confused because I thought guys were supposed to avoid this from happening." which is exactly what most women want us to think. But every once in a while you get a Girlfriend who actually enjoys giving that level of pleasure that comes from providing a "face f_ck". Congrats.

"Is it safe?" Umm it's OK until she pukes her cookies all over you I suppose. She could be building towards a well paid career with adult movie aspirations. Just kidding.

Everyone has a right to the type of sex that they want so long as all parties are enjoying themselves. I too had a girl years ago who wanted to master the deep throat skill set and, as any male would, I provided her with ample opportunity to practice. Eventually once she had mastered the trick she became less interested in the 'practice' but you should enjoy it while it lasts.

Or she could be heading down the masochistic side of things in which case you might act the Dom and start asking what else she's looking for. Not necessarily to twist her kink but to learn where her head is at with it all.

Good luck.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah, I don't believe you.

The way you describe in detail makes it clear that that idea turns YOU on, and I doubt your girlfriend is really asking for it. 98% percent of girls out there do not ask to be face f***ed for obvious reasons, there's nothing about it that's not uncomfortable or painful or denigrating on their end.

That said, good luck on finding a girl that will let you do it, I don't think it would be too hard, but finding one that asks for it or actually likes it would be.

sebastianbk · Accepted Answer

i don't know about gagging but I love to be choked during sex so maybe she gets the same arousal from that as I do this! maybe how about you just ask. open communication is everything. me and my boy talk everything out. it should be fine.