Girlfriend cried after oral? is she acting crazy?

[Anonymous]

So aparently I'm the first guy to give my girlfriend oral...( I really hate to stereotype...I know many black guys give their women oral..but all her bf's have been black or mixed, and I hear that they don't like to do that as much as white guys) Anyway she really enjoyed it but then broke down afterward and started crying and talking aobut how no one did that for her before? is it really that big of a deal? it really freaked me out. lol

[Anonymous]

lol @ the comment about black guys

and you might have hit her spot. that's a good thing! or she could just feel even more emotionally connected to you and feel like this was something she is really grateful for since no other guy has done that for her in the past. she may feel like you went out of your way to give her something that she didn't expect. it can be really emotional for some girls especially if they care for you and no one has gone down on them before.

[saphirasilverwings]

I think she was probably just touched that you were doing something so giving. Sometimes when my boyfriend gives me oral I feel very emotional about it because even though he likes doing it, I feel like he is making a sacrifice for me and showing that he cares about me. Sex can also just be an emotional thing in general, especially for girls. It causes oxytocin, a hormone that inspires bonding (sometimes nicknamed the cuddle hormone), to be released.

[CuriousChocolate]

She could have cried because she didn't want to do oral at all. Maybe she is Christian and doesn't believe in being physical with someone and felt that she lost some of her purity. Maybe she felt violated and embarrassed. You never know you should probably ask her. Just because she cried doesn't mean she is crazy it means you might have did something wrong or made her uncomfortable.

[dtaylor31906]

take it as a good sign.. she just isn't use to having somebody care for her like that in bed... I'm black and I know someimes we tend to get selfish in the bedroom. so when she thought about what you did maybe she just felt really loved

[mooglelove]

yes this can happen when you get the jackpot lol. it can be really overwhelming, at least for me it is and I think a lot of girls can be the same way.

[flyboy_o3]

really? I don't understand why a female would cry though :/

[metalheadstephy420]

Perhaps you hit the G spot.

[Anonymous]

I am not sure why she cried... can't say I ever have. I would ask her about it but try to find a way to not make her feel uncomfortable.