Girlfriend doesn't believe in sex before marriage?

I have been with my girlfriend for 9 months and we are both head over heals for each other. She is religious and doesn't want to have sex until she is married. I was fine with this but a few months ago, as I tried to add more intimacy into our relationship, I discovered that no sex meant pretty much no anything with the exception of dry humping. I really do love her and I can respect the fact that she wants to wait but I find myself thinking about cheating on her and I really don't want to hurt her like that. What action should I take? I really don't want to end up hurting her but at the same time I'm young and horny.
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Most Helpful Guy

  • You have it good, man.

    Do you know how many people are looking to find actual love?

    If you cheat then she deserves better than you. Yes, I understand the whole thing about being young and horny. I'm a guy too after all.

    But think back to when you were younger and your parents told you that you had to finish your meal before you could have dessert. You're probably glad you listened to them, right? It's all about patience. They've done studies, and people who are willing to put off instant gratification for a bigger reward in the end are more intelligent and successful in life.

    You should count your blessings every day that you have this woman in your life. Don't take anything for granted. Some people are much worse off than you. At the end, there's always going to be the struggle of temptation, but you have to decide what's more important to you. And look at it like this...if you do end up cheating on her, then she was right not to have sex with you. Put your heart and your brain before your d***.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well cheating on her won't solve your problem, you'll feel even worse. Just masturbate, I know its going to be hard but If you truly do Love her then you will wait... and when you are married well I'm sure it will be well worth it and much more meaningful and special experience between the two of you. Hope this helps :)

  • I guess it's time to decide if she is worth waiting for because unless she changes her mind you won't be getting sex from her until you put a ring on it. There's no reason to cheat just break up with her if this isn't what you want.

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  • Your options: marry, cheat, leave, or suffer.

    Good luck.