Girlfriend has cut me off from sex completely! Should I be worried? What to do?

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My girlfriend of 2 years has completely cut me off from sex for the past 3 months because we have been having hard times and been on and off. For the past 3 or 4 weeks things has finally been getting back to normal. I tried talking to her about it but she still says she just isn't ready? I am so horny.. What should I do now? Should I be worried? Has this ever happened to you? And if so what were the results? All answers will be greatly appreciated!

udolipixie · Accepted Answer

Girlfriend has cut me off from sex completely! Should I be worried?

Depends on what you're worried about.:

- if you mean worry about why she doesn't desire sex with you or isn't ready to have sex I doubt it'd suit for you to worry as likely considering it's been 3 months it seems you're not an effective communicator with her nor that interested in her reasons why

- if you mean worry about when you'll be busting a nut in/on her again I think this will suit as it's more self-centered and guys seem to be quite adept at thinking solely about themselves especially in regards to sex

What to do?

Perhaps it's suited to dump her as likely as a guy f*cking her is a sole/main reason you're in a committed relationship with her so since she's not doing what you solely/mainly wanted from her move on to someone who will.

sockz · Accepted Answer

A relationship without sex is just friendship.  Stay friends with her if she's important, but don't stay in a relationship where you she holds sex over you like some kind of weapon.  It's just wrong.

martyfellow · Accepted Answer

You can't reason your way past this mind set. I'd suggest breaking up asap, because after 3 months, this has become a set pattern and won't likely change. Somethinghs happened that just won't allow any sexual triggers to be pulled. You could try couples therapy, but I wouldn't be optimistic.

Sometimes people just don't want to be together any longer, and they themselves don't know why.

archer86 · Accepted Answer

Find someone else. You are the one trying to mend the damage and doing your part. But she is not being a team player on this. You are trying to save the game but she keeps committing errors which is losing the game.

Know this much: it's not your fault for not trying.

Who to replace her with? You are on your own there youngling!

lefthand · Answer

Leave.

It won't ever get better.

Once that becomes OK to stop sex, it will be used as a weapon for the rest of the relationship. She's done with the relationship but doesn't want to get blamed for it.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Dump immediately.

Anonymous · Answer

My experience is that women lose their interest in sex dramatically, some 2-3 years after they start a relationship. Ironically enough, at the start, they can never seem to get enough of it.

This leaves guys quite high and dry, and feeling betrayed.

Anonymous · Answer

DUMP! She's probably already getting with another guy regularly, so you'll get to worry about disease with her too when/if she ever decides to get near your penis again.

A girlfriend who doesn't have sex with you is about as useless a thing as there is. Get a new one. No need to even discuss it with her. Just start looking.

Anonymous · Answer

Cutting off sex is a sign that she wants to kill the relationship, but doesn't want her fingerprints on the murder weapon, so to speak. Get rid of this cow, and know it was entirely her fault.

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