Girlfriend has a hairy anus and?

[Anonymous]

So the other day I was alone with my girlfriend at my place, we were both turned on and we wanted to have sex, she said she wanted anal, So we took our clothes off, and when I was about to stick it in, I saw this gross hair all over hair anus, I didn't want to disappoint her so I kept going and sticked it in, but I didn't feel right, and to be honest, it felt like it's a guy's butt :s, so I put it out and I felt embarrassed and I couldn't tell her it was because of the hair, I told her I'm feeling sick and I left, and she's acting like she hates me now or something, so people, any advice? should I tell her to shave or something (I know that would sound rude if I did)?

I'd like her butt to look more like this one (I mean hairless)

[hello_there_D]

Ok, girls, if it's ok and normal to have hair on your butt because it's natural, it's also ok and normal for us guys to be attracted to no hair on the butt, because us guys happen to be attracted to that. It is completely dumb to give us shit for what we are naturally attracted to, when you are at the same time giving us shit because it's natural to have hair there in the first place. Sorry, but a lot of guys like it hairless, it's just the truth. and don't go off blaming the media this, the media that, society is messed up, etc etc, because even if that's true, it is what it is, and it's not our fault, and, just as you said, it's completely "natural". Talk about being hypocritical. How about this way of thinking for size? If you're girlfriend has hair and it's that big of a deal to you, then say something if you want, at your own risk. Girls, if you want to remain hairy in spite of your man's wishes, then don't shave it, but don't blame anybody but yourself when he starts looking for other girls with clean hairless assholes. However, if you want to make your man happy, then just try shaving it once, it takes 10 minutes, and it won't make any difference in your life, except make your boyfriend happy for a few weeks (answer me, is there any reason you have to keep hairs on your butt?). If you are that passionate about being natural, why even try to fit into societies "standards" at all... Just do everyone a favor and just try it if your boyfriend asks, and guys, just ask your girl. If she is cool and a girl worth being with, she's not going to give you much shit for the ten minute inconvenience to her.

[MarcusDavis]

Help her dude! I used hair removal cream on my girls butt, and helped her shave the hole. She loved it. So did I. And you're right. Not only does it look much more appealing hairless -- it feels amazing. She already lets you go anal. That is the hard part. This is easy. She can shave it easy. If she just puts a mirror on floor behind her while she is at the bathroom sink, she can squat over the mirror, like peeing outside, and hang onto the sink for balance. Easy to reach. You shave it like any other surface. Take a shower first to make hair soft. Use a good shave cream...maybe even edge... I like a little baby oil first, then Edge. Get a nice smooth shave. And by the by, she might want to use a little baby powder between cheeks till she gets used to walking with no hair back there. She can do that in the shower so it does not get everywhere. The hair acts as kind of a natural buffer between cheeks. Sounds like a lot, but once you do it, it is nothing. Like brushing teeth. You will both be a lot happier trust me.

[Asker]

The anal part isn't really hard, once you get over the shyness and you both open up to each other, it's no problem.

[MarcusDavis]

Cool. And anal is much nicer with a shaved anus yes?

[Asker]

Yeah somewhat, but there are people who prefer it to be a bit hairy because it's "kinky", not that many though.

[Anonymous]

im sorry to tell you this, but your stupid! why would you even consider telling a girl that? its normal to have hair there. you do too. if you want her to shave hers, then i suggest you better shave yours as well! and same goes for vagina. i shave there just because usually. but sometimes i let the hair grow out some. and if my boyfriend ever told me to shave it, i would NEVER shave it again while we're together. ecspecially since he doesn't shave his area there! thats just being hypocritical! so if you think a girl needs to shave ANYWHERE, you better shave as well. and its a rude thing to ask also. here she's giving you sex/ anal sex. any guys dream and you ask her to shave? really? be grateful!! if i was her, and you asked me that. i wouldn't shave anything for you ever again! and also, if it bothers you THAT much to have anal sex with a "hairy butthole" then dont have anal sex with her. take it or leave it. and by saying it feels like a guys butt... why are you feeling guys butts dude!! and also, that is quite sexist. i would be mad if i were her too

[Zz1985]

I'd happily shave my butt too, ain't no thang! Shaved Butts for all! Just like nice haircuts and groomed body hair. I shave my face, she shaves her legs, well we might as well shave our butts and not get our jaws all out of joint about it. He totally could have been a little more polite about the whole thing though...

[Aqualung]

I'd ask you to shave, so that you would grow it out.

[Anandan]

No, it's objectively disgusting, whether it simply "exists" or not. But women often have a gross taste. Maybe it has something to do with them being condemned to like men..

[Joeeeeeeeeeeeeeee]

Oooooh we got a feminist over here. How about stop calling it sexist. If he doesn't enjoy it, that doesn't mean they have to break up. Isn't sex about both of the people being mutually happy? I don't understand how it is bad to ask

[shavedbald2]

I agree. I have pretty blonde fine feminine hairs on my ass cheeks. But gross black hairs around my anus. I am andro guy; but Not gay. Like to leave the pretty blonde fine hairs on my cheeks. Possible to get waxing in a beauty salon? I wear juniors micro - mini shorts size 1 & or 2. Possible to get waxing around my anus, but leave blonde hairs on my cheeks? I trim hairs on my arms, & bleach them feminine blonde. Shave my hands, legs, toes & entire pubic area bald. I like how it looks & feels. I desire to make my body feminine- I'm andro. Like to become a feminine shemale. Too much paperwok. & red tape. I'm very happy that got my arm hairs bleached golden blonde & feminine. Any help or ideas how to make my body more feminine- Please

[Anonymous]

men are so stupid. lol its totally normal for girls butt to be hairy. its a part of biology. before we work all the magic that we have to in order to fit beauty standards in this society, we have all kinds of hair, leg hair, butt hair, pubic hair, facial hair, some girls have back hair and stomach hair. being hairy doesn't = guy parts. its human anatomy, my love. we are naturally hairy. the only reason you think we aren't is because most of us remove it. not all girls have butt hair but the vast majority do.

why don't you go shave before you tell her to strip hair from yet another part of her body?

[Asker]

Eh, honestly the only part I got hair on is my butt, and not that much hair, my penis and everything else is clean, tyvm for your concern

[Opinion Owner]

you don't have hair anywhere on your body but there? that's rare, good for you

[Asker]

No I mean I shaved the main parts.

[Anonymous]

well you probably know that its normal for a girl to have hair around her anus, so if you phrase it like you did here, she could easily takje it as offense.

You certainley shouldn't tell her to shave, but you may ask her to nicley.

She's probably mad because you just left so fast without giving her proper reason, so I think if you just apologize its alright. Also if you say your feeling sick while having sex with her she might feel bad about herself.

[Asker]

i never knew It was normal for a woman <_<, and yea I guess I'll just talk to her about it and ask her nicely to shave.

[Opinion Owner]

ya it is normal. when you get a barzillian wax they remove it, so if you like you could suggest this to her, but then you should pay some of the bill, because its damn expensive

[Guysareactuallydumb]

You are actually fucking retarded if u didn’t know ass hair was normal for women💀

[0ddjob]

"... it felt like a guy's butt..."

And you know this how?

[Asker]

Because obviously men have jungles in the back.

[Shaun]

"Let's celebrate anal awareness day, I'll wash, shave, eat and f*** your ass. Sound like fun?"

"Will you shave my ass if I shave yours?"

[Asker]

LOL the first one might actually work, the second one's a bit gey.

[Shaun]

Anyway, that's how I do it, offer to shave and pamper her ass. It's always worked for me.

[Asker]

Imma try that on the next smex nite

[Sebers12]

You should fell happy, because it's awesome, sexy and natural. Don't turn girl into steril boring alien.

[Anandan]

That is one reason why womrn have historically been regarded as unholy, which is completely incomprehensible and contradictory when growing up.

[Anonymous]

Same story here but I told my girlfriend about it and had her shave it off before doing anything more. Now I pick on her every time she lets it grow more than a little stubble so that she has to go wax it off. I tell her that it just looks gross so she knows I don't like it.

[Anonymous]

the media has so many people f***ed up in the head. no offense but you have unrealistic expectations. women aren't born hairless. we naturally have body hair, and some of that is around our anus. it's like a guys butt because men and women are both mammals, and we both have body hair. some women don't have it because they get brazilians which also waxes your butt hair

[Joeeeeeeeeeeeeeee]

Is it unrealistic for me to not want my woman looking like an ape

[Anonymous]

Sadly... there's no real way to break this down (so far as I've figured out anyway) to a girl that will not cause her to be offended. But I'm getting ahead of myself. First... how she's acting now. She probably saw right through your "feeling sick" excuse and is embarrassed and annoyed that you weren't being truthful (even though you were trying to not hurt her feelings). She probably thinks you were grossed out by her wanting to have anal (and trust me on this one... not a lot of women I've met do). Now... what should you do?

Tell her you want to meet up with her to chat. As soon as you say that, she'll think it's "the talk" and you're going to break up with her or something... so you'll need to reassure her that it's "no big deal" and you just want to explain what yesterday was all about and apologize (yes, you will need to say you're sorry. Trust me and go with it). When you meet up... just let her know you weren't feeling yourself and (if you are) let her know you're interested in trying again sometime (ignore that if you aren't). After she's relaxed a little... you're going to have to work in the conversation that you really like a very well trimmed back side. If you approach this as in "You grossed me out with your hair so we can't do that again till you shave"... you'll never do it again and she'll be offended and scared. You have to come at it from the angle of it being something you really like, and then let her do it on her own so she thinks it's something she's doing that's nice for you.

Good luck man! Hope that helped.

[Butterfly_kisses09]

This^^^

[Asker]

I'm not grossed out about her asking for anal, that's pretty normal, a lot of my ex's asked for it and they didn't have hairy butt, xD and I take it you meet some closeminded women, anyways, to tell you the truth bro, I can't get myself to tell her, I don't have the guts to, she'll hate me and probably break up with me if I told her that, maybe I'll just tell her that we should shower together then get her to shave my penis and I shave her parts? I wonder if that would work lol

[Aqualung]

Dude, buy her a Spa Day. Ask her if she'd be willing to have a Brazilian because it intrigues you. If she likes it great. Personally, I don't care. But I've only met one girl with substantial hair; right up her butt crack. She was hot. Very sexual, constantly wet & wiling. We had fun.

[Anonymous]

It's normal for a woman to have hair there. Get over it. Don't ask her to shave, it will make her itchy.

[Joeeeeeeeeeeeeeee]

How about you get over it and have him ask nicely :). If she says yes than good. If she says no then I don't know man