Girlfriend and her best friend measured another guy's penis, should I be OK?

So a couple of nights ago we were hanging out with some friends when the topic of a certain guy came up. A girl asked if the rumor about him being huge was true. My girlfriend laughed and said it definitely was... She went on to tell about how a few weeks ago, while drinking with her best friend and this guy..her friend dared him to prove his size and he did. Then the three of them measured it. My girlfriend says she just held the tape and this is nothing to be upset about. I'm a little jealous...am I overreacting? Am I just upset that he is a lot larger and my girlfriend of over a year seems so impressed?
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  • completely inappropriate, yes.

    you are also jealous and upset. she should have known that. she should have predicted that. she should have cared.

    i have to say it is good that she actually told you - if she was being honest.

    personally I think she was worried you would hear something and wanted to control the story. I don't think that you got the whole story... why was he hard? I think **** size normally gets measured when the guy is hard... she might have just held the ruler, but I'm guessing even if she wasn't directly involved, she was there when he got hard... and she might have been involved. worth asking. actually worth asking other people who were there.

    honesty, I don't like it. I think it is wrong not because it is cheating but because even if it isn't everyone can see it is questionable and I think she should have thought about you and how you would take it.

    personally, I would not put up with a boyfriend measuring another girl's boobs or p**** or taking a look or sniff because his friend said it was unusual in one way or another. no. I don't think it is appropriate in college and it is even less appropriate at your age.

    • Thanks. I can't tell if I'm more bothered by the betrayal of my feelings or the sense of inadequacy that I can't escape lately. My age is a tad bit exaggerated. I was hoping that would bring more mature responses ...and it has for the most part.

    • i like to think we all deserve a bit more consideration and respect. thanks for giving me best answer! ;)

    • Took your advice and dug a little deeper. She says he got himself hard but she was in the room the whole time. She admits her fingers touched him when she measured his width or whatever. I'm glad she's being honest but I am still super pissed.

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  • I don't think its a big deal. I used to work in a piercing shop in San Diego and assisted many "private" piercings. We had a customer we called 'pony boy' lol. We laughed about it a lot. The guy was freakishly large. My boyfriend (now husband) was slightly uncomfortable but it really wasn't an issue. IMO a penis by itself really isn't a turn on. And she's not going to be comparing you penis to his every time she has sex with you either.

    • Well did you have to handle pony boy? I'd not be happy if my Girlfriend did that.

    • thats not acceptable its not like she's a nurse or a doctor or anthing

    • Part of me thinks I'm being unreasonable and part of me is totally jealousy

  • That's pretty weird and unappropriate. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be around some vaja. His size has nothing to do with it, though. I don't care if he was an inchworm ... she shouldn't have participated.

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  • Seems a little sketchy and not the kind of thing a girl in a relationship would do (even if she was drunk). But at the same time, what can you really do here, tell her to quit looking at any more d***s except yours? Maybe on the flip side, she doesn't really have any ground to tell you to quit looking at other women, though I really wouldn't condone any kind of "payback" behavior.

    I'd say all you really can do is talk to her about it and tell her that you obviously don't appreciate the fact that she did that. Other than that, I'm not sure what else could really be done. Just try to move past it.

  • I don't really think any "respectable" girl would do something like that in a committed relationship, that sort of thing is uncalled for. I also find it quite strange that a "friend" would ask to measure an intimate part of another friends body. Put your foot down and be a man, tell her she can't be doing things like that or your gone.

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  • haha. lol. it's normal to be jealous but I think you don't have to worry about it. Since you're girl friend is comfortable talking about it, then it's pretty harmless.

  • This isn't a cuckold kind of thing, is it?

    • No. Had to google that phrase. If you can add anything useful then why go to the trouble of responding?

    • Because you seem to be inordinately fascinated with the size of the other guy's penis... the comparisons and feeling of inadequacy are, to some guys, a desired outcome. I was checking to see if this is your intent, or making you aware that some people think about this and enjoy it. People ask questions on here to gain insights and perspectives. The 'asker' determines what is useful, but that can't be done until you hear it. My comment was not insulting or otherwise demeaning. Yours was.

  • your age says you 36-45... if your girl friend is still getting drunk and measuring penis then you need a new gf.. she's a loser.

  • I doubt it was really serious just a bit of fun

    You could tell her about it and how it made you feel but, I don't think she feels for you any less or wants to cheat

  • I'd never do that to a boyfriend...inappropriate.

  • Pretty harmless but I still think her doing that is showing you some disrespect. It's up to you if you want to let it slide, but personally I'd talk to her and say hey you shouldn't be giving any attention to any guys junk but mine.

    • The only thing which will come from having that talk is that she'd lie about the next time she and her friends screwed the stallion of the group. If a man in this situation doesn't end things, he's not a man.

    • exactly shaun its best to leave her in her natural habitat to see what kind of person she is unchecked, and exactly again shaun this guy should leave her

  • ahhh fyi huge d***s hurt like a mother and then you're all stretched out after! tell her to f*** him and then say good luck with that grand canyon

    she shouldn't have told you. I woulndt have.

    did she touch it tho? cause that's a jerk away from a hand job and that equals cheattingggg!

  • I wouldn't trust her after admitting to touching another man's penis while in a relationship. Your call. I'd be packing my things.

  • Dump her dude she's going to run off with him when you make a mistake and use that as an excuse

  • Daaam disrespectful little bitch...she's lying to you first of all,she only told half story, like most people do when they do stupid sh*t

    • Yup, probably a lot more to the story.

    • yeah you know they jerked him off so he can get hard then they tried to get their hands around it then their mouth then they probably had a threesome

    • Lol I wouldn't go that far dudeman. But I definitley think she touched it and he wasn't the one holding the ruler...

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  • she doestn respect you as a man

  • Ask her if it's cool if you measure another Girls breasts?

  • Shes a skank

    1. Dicks don't get hard by themselves.

    2. She's lyng to you.

    3. There are girls with respect and loyalty.

    Get one and your life will be much bettet.

  • Just go see how tight one of your gorgeous friends are & tell her how great it is that a p**** can be so perfect. 2 can play that game & if she don't like it, tell her to f*** off & find yourself another one of the 3 billion women out there.

    Bottom line, if a girl thinks it alright to go around measuring guys d***s I don't want a tramp like her, have had enough of those for 1 lifetime. Any girl who thinks that is alright or FUN while in a relationship has NO class at all

  • Tell your girlfriend that, to start with, she shouldn't be judging people on size!

  • you just sound jealous

    • Well I admit that I am a little jealous...but I don't know if I should just get over it or not

    • it was fun.. she didn't touch it or jack him off or anything just let it go.. to be honest she shouldn't have told u

    • I know. I kinda wish she hadn't. Now I can't stop thinking about and myself in comparison to mine.

  • I would dump her if I were you, seems she doesn't respect you enough