Girlfriend just whipped me again..

[Anonymous]

I'm new here so I don't know how this completely works..I posted earlier about the same thing. My girlfriend just whipped the heck out of me after I got home from Sunday darts with my friends..She said she was going to give my a blowjob which is nooo problem, then tied me up blindfolded me and just let me have it. I was late getting home and am buzzed and didn't call but I just don't think that's a big deal (well now I do). I know for a fact I can be really insensitive at times like every dude but this girl like is on the correction side of the fence the second I sort of get out of line a little bit she whips me one way or the other. Her program is starting to make me rethink if going out is even a good idea!I still want to go out with my boys and go crazy but its just not worth it..Any girls have an opinion here? I need help!

[rainydaydreamaway]

Do you literally mean whip? Like with an actual whip? Dude, score! LOL That woman is my new HERO!

Just kidding... kinda. I wish I would have thought of that... maybe it's not too late to try!

Ok but seriously, or as serious as I can be on this: it doesn't sound like she hurt you and I'm not convinced you don't like it, at least just a little.

If it's getting to be a bit too much though, you can tell her it's getting to be a bit too much and would she please just verbalize her issues with you and you will listen because you do want to be with her. Tell her if she feels you aren't listening or you're being insensitive or being a douche or whatever, she gets one more free whipping session for when you really f*** up, so use it wisely, lol.

OK, to all those women who've been told you can't fix a bad boy, I used to believe it, but no longer! I'm buying me a whip! I don't actually want to fix the bad boys, I just want to punish all of them and make them cry! lol!

I can't believe what I've just typed - such a double standard! If it was a guy smacking a woman for the same I'd tell her to get away from the creep as fast as possible. But the way you frame it sounds more like sex play than abuse? If I'm wrong, please clear it up because I would never condone any one actually hurting you in an abusive way, nor joke around about it. I'm guessing it's sex play that's going a little too far?

[saphirasilverwings]

I have no idea why she feels she has the right to do that. I guess she has some sort of dominatrix thing going on.

If you are truly uncomfortable with the situation (and if you are I sure don`t blame you!) you need to take steps to protect yourself from her.

Have you confronted her seriously about it? Is she aware that you honestly and truly don`t want her to whip you? If you haven`t been voicing your opinion, or if you have been wishy-washy and too easy going, she may not realize that you are opposed to what is happening.

Make it very clear to her that you are not okay with her behavior. If she refuses to listen and keep herself in check, what she is doing would be considered domestic abuse. She has no right to hurt you that way.

Don`t be tempted to sacrifice other important things in your life in order to avoid being whipped. Her behavior is the problem, not yours. Stand up for yourself and get help if she refuses to cooperate.

[elektrisitee]

Have you ever heard of sado-masochism? Google it. She sounds like a sadist to me. They get off on inflicting pain and having a sense of control... and may be aroused by punishing you.

And evidently, her punishments are working because you are contemplating even going out. That's not good. She shouldn't control you like that.

If you are not into this kind of stuff, you need to tell her. And if she doesn't shape up, do you really wanna deal with that anymore? If I were in your situation... I'd be outta there. Who know's what kind of punishments she has lined up.

[Anonymous]

Not only are you p**** whipped, but you actually get whipped by your gf, unless it is sexual role play that is just plain sad and pathetic. You as a man let a woman degrade you like that, I really hope your joking about this, because if a chick ever tried to do that to me, she would find out really fast that I will not tolerate that sh*t. Men are stronger and if you really wanted to you could have easily broken the ropes, hell if it was me and she tried that I don't care if I would have broken the head board, and I guarantee you that she won't ever try that again, and not only that I wpuld tell her she is lucky I don't do that same thing to her, because it would hurt one hell of lot more, and then I would say oh yea tommarow night I'm going out deal with it.

[chicken43]

you should whip her too. Make it exciting and do some role-play. HAHAHAHAHAAHAHHA, you have lots of fun.

[intra]

The is a play by Shakespear, its call "The taming of the shrew". You need to tame yours.

[missducky]

Try dominating her back it may slow her down next time she has a rising to whip you :)

[Xenophobia]

She's a freak...those are the types of girls you want bro... A lady in the streets, a freak in the sheets! GIGGITY GGGGGGIGGITY GIGGITY

[jokerforlifeny]

dam yu a little bitch bro ... do yu lik it wen she in charge ..

[mondaysapples]

I think that this girl is only looking for pleasure .Yeah its sexual and good and all that but when it gets to the point to where its prohibiting you from being yourself and having your own life, it's a problem. Honestly, sex and foreplay and all that jazz is really, really amazing but there's a fine line between a functioning, compatible, comfortabe relationship and a relationship defined around sex and boredom. You can find better, I garuntee.

Oh yeah, and don't get whipped- that's for pussies :)

[Taken]

the girl shuld loosen up a little bit but if she is like tht again she's not worth it so good luck

[Anonymous]

Whip - you mean literally?