Girlfriend looked at the history on my computer. Help.

So I keep my laptop in my bedroom and when my girlfriend comes over I have her use the guest account. Mine is password protected. So she finally guessed my password somehow when I was in night class and she called me screaming at the top of her lungs. I have watched a lot of p*rn on my computer but not really bad fetish p*rn. My history revealed a lot of what I was watching and I had my favorite videos bookmarked and she found those too. She didn't break up with me but I have never had anyone this angry with me in my entire life, she is beyond livid. This came out of nowhere we never argue and she's a really laid back and chill chick who likes to resolve things quickly and intellectually. she's an Aquarius. She feels like she isn't enough for me but she is enough, guys just watch p*rn no matter what. How do I convince her that she is enough for me? Also how the hell did she guess my password? it was pretty complex with numbers added in. I didn't have it written anywhere and she won't tell me how she did it.
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So she admitted to hacking into my computer using keystroke. Question is what do I do now? Should I dump her? I'm seriously considering it, I'm wondering what else she is capable of. Oh and she's crying now... sobbing and wailing... I told her I didn't want to see her but she's so damn pushy and she's driving over no matter what I say. What should I do when I see her?
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  • I think you should have just been open about it in the beginning of the relationship, people watch p*rn. It's no big deal lol. I also think that by only letting her in on the guest account gave her reason to think you may be hiding stuff from her.

    I'm not justifying what she did, it's wrong but you have to see it a little from her point of view too. If she has any type of trust issues, then I don't think you helped the situation. Not that you would have known this though, you did nothing wrong. I don't necessarily think it's reason to break up with her if you love each other.

    She obviously knows she did the wrong thing and the fact she's so adamant on coming over means she wants to sort things out. Do you really want to give up on her for this? It's not right what she did but she didn't cheat on you, she must care for you lot and love you or she wouldn't be trying so hard.

    just talk to her about it, try not to get too angry as you will have a much more productive conversation if you keep calm about the situation.

    I hope you both work it out.

  • That was overreaction from her side. What you do on your laptop is your business and your business alone. She broke into your laptop account, that's invasion of the privacy everybody deserves. What's even more disturbing and should get you thinking is, calling you in the middle of the night screaming about something that's your own personal choice and not noticing the stupid thing she just did.

    Take a break from her a while, let her think again what she did.

    • Yes your right a huge overreaction. You should have heard her yelling my classmates could hear her. I shouldn't have answered but my teacher said it was ok.

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  • wow... she is installing malwares in your computer. that's some nonsense sh*t! wow...

    i think you both have trust issues. she obviously has no trust in u...thats y she made all that effort. may be she got all suspicious that why won't you let her use your a/c in your laptop. may be she thought you were hiding something. did you ever stop her from using urs? may be she got all over analysing. women over think a lot. don't break up with her. but yes don't let her get away so easily too. don't get back with her for another week. let her know what she did was seriously wrong. and don't let her touch your laptop again... make the guest a/c password protected too

  • i would beat that bitch ass. lol OK not too serious but first of all put her in her place because she was wrong for hacking your password and going through your stuff. secondly, she was wrong for yelling at you for watching p*rn like she has some type of say in what you watch in your free time. and third she needs to stop being so unreasonable. I don't get girls who get mad when they find out their boyfriend watches p*rn.. I mean wtf all men watch it and many women do too. you're grown. you need to let her know she is the one who was wrong so don't start talking to you like she's crazy when she should be apologizing to you.

    • Thanks for your input, I will tell her she's wrong but I have a feeling its going to get crazy, but I will stand my ground.

  • Key stroke software

    I maybe curious about what my guy is looking at or who he is chatting with ( but I will just come out and ask him so then he shows me his fav sites lol) but she has passed a line when she hacked your comp and then has the audacity to call you up freaking out. You need ask her how she would feel if you looked through all her texts on her phone or some such nonsense. Sounds like this girl is a very insecure bitch to tell the truth. I just don't get women who try to control every aspect of their mans life.

    • She used software to break in? lol wow.

    • it's specifically for hacking passwords

    • I had all my financial files on my account, I hope she didn't f*** things up.

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  • 1) If her ass wasn't going through hour computer when she shouldn't be, she wouldn't have to deal with knowing this (nor invading someone's privacy)

    2) Men masturbate, it's like nature. The sooner girls realize that men masturbate and that this has no effect on our feelings for her, then the sooner we can all move on.

  • She isn't enough for you, dude. Run. Fast.

    First, she hacks your computer. Second, she goes rummaging for something to upset her.

    (You don't keep your p*rn on your desktop, do you? Of course not--she went fishing.)

    Third, instead of blaming herself for finding *exactly* whas she was looking for--or for looking in the first place--she blames you for having p*rn. In a password-protected account. Which she hacked. And went searching for. All this, your fault.

    P-S-Y-C-H-O, okay? This was a setup, and if you stay with her, it won't be the last. Again, she went *looking* for a reason to bitch you out. Something about people who look: they tend to find.

  • Well with that experience, I wouldn't leave your diary lying around. Seems to me though that she went to extreme lengths to break into your computer, wonder what else she's capable of.

    • Seriously man, what else can she hijack?

    • I have no idea but I'd sleep with one eye open.

  • you know what...that is just wrong..breaking into someone's privacy...

    NOT ACCEPTABLE...donno whether you should dump her or not.

    But all tht crying thing is just melodrama.

    don't fall for that crap & maintain your frame

  • Dump her snooping ass.

    • Really?

    • She won't tell me how she logged on so I'm starting to think she's a hacker.

    • I would. I wouldn't tolerate that sh*t at all. You have a right to look at p*rn, you have a right to have your comp password protected. You could have all your financial files and other important documents f***ed up from her screwing around. Would you try to hack her computer?

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  • tell her to shut up or start putting out more one of the two

  • What is the big deal?

  • F***.. She has no business looking through your Internet history & hacking your computer. She's got trust issues. Sounds to me like she's got issues in general. To be honest, if I were you I'd be pissed & I'd dump her ass.

  • wow she really doesn't trust you LOL. that's hard core hacking your computer. she sounds kinda crazy :\