Girlfriend putting finger in butt during oral sex....Serious question for girls and guys

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I both enjoy oral sex a lot. While I am down on her she really likes me to put one or two fingers in her butt. A few months ago she brought up the fact that she read online about doing that to a guy too and she wanted to try it on me. So I agreed to try it and actually I loved it. Felt great and gave me a very intense orgasm. She used one finger and everything was good. After a few times of that she surprised me one day by useing two in me. Was surprised...kinda hurt a little at first but ended up ok. However...lately she has been wanting to put three or four in me...I'm open to trying things but kind of concerned about what that might do to me...and how far she wants to go with it. No I'm not gay either but I do like it when she uses one or two there... Any advice? personal experience?

[SkinnerOne]

I envy you a girlfriend that will do that for you. Anal play like that for a guy is one of the most exciting things that can happen. And let's face it guys... you don't get much more intimate with your girlfriend that that now do you? It's sharing something that is very special. At least it is to me.

Putting more than a couple of fingers in can be a lot more intense but I am not sure it will feel any better. A lot fuller yes. I once had a girl that used her vibrator on me and it was hot but not something I craved afterward. Just experiment. It doesn't mean you are gay. Hell massaging your prostrate according to some is just good for your health!

[MadHatterni]

Usually if you can't do a sperm sample, a nurse will put on a glove and press on a certain part with their finger back there. Not odd at all but usually if she tries 3 or 4 she'll want to do more and I think you should set some rules before it hurts and you can't sit for awhile.

[SkinnerOne]

Crap. I want to go to YOUR doctor!

[xfifix]

Tell her to relax and that a finger is enough,she is getting carried away with it all.Up to you to let her know how you feel about 3/4 fingers/fist in your ass hole

[WhatIsThisIDont]

Men are more sensitive anally than women (mostly because of our prostate) and we are prone to more colonic problems too. I wouldn't recommend going much farther than 2 fingers or small toys or you could find yourself at a painful proctologist visit.