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Girlfriend's family caught us having sex?

My girlfriend is 16 and I'm 19. We recently decided to try and have sex. Last night was the first night she was actually able to enjoy it, because before this she was a virgin. Her 2 older brothers, ages 20 and 23, are staying at her parents house while on leave from the Army. They eavesdropped and heard us from outside her bedroom door, came in, and told me to get out, quit banging there little sister, and "wait til' dad hears about you." Sadly, there ex-Navy Seal dad hates me already. How do I make it up to them?
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  • make it up to them. there's something sick in all of this, jesus if my brothers walked in on me & my boyfriend, & my boyfriend was worried about making up to them- that he was with me naked sticking his d*** inside me.. I would not be talking to any of you. Its like got tis incestual quality that would be making me feel disgusting. You do not seem to realize its entirely creepy to have her vagina as a central theme between 4 men in her daily life-- 3 of whom are related to her--Do you?

    just stay away from them till they grow the duck up. She is going to have bfs. They had gfs. This macho Elizabethan bullsh*t is so f***ing immature on their part. & The fact they are trying to intimidate makes it so much worse.

    If they are going to use the fact you are a boyfriend against you-you can't win them over. They are being psychotic. You can not reason with that.

    Stay away from them & stop f***ing her till she is legal. You could get arrested. Unless.. its legal in Europe no? If its legal where you guys are then they are just being so completely rediculous, just stay away.

    make it up o them.. seriously, wow. no way. they are IN THE WRONG. you have nothing to 'make up to them' they are not 6 years old& you didn't steal their new shiny ball. you stuck your d*** in a consenting human being you are committed to. Tell them to go f*** themselves & get their own gf-- except they will beat the sh*t out of you- so just stay away.

  • Most dad's are protective of there 16 year-old daughters you just lucked out and got older brothers with that. Not to mention the military alpha-male thing they probably got going on. Truth is there is nothing you can say to just make it better and they will probably always be cautious and a littl resentfull regarding you. Be yourself and work around them if you have to (like a little subtlety perhaps when it comes to sex).

  • tell them that your sorry and thay it was a laps in judgment and that you reall love his daughter and it won't happen again then sneek her to your place and finish your bisness

Most Helpful Guys

  • I noticed that you say she only has two brothers and she says she has 3 (in her question as well)..why in the world are you having sex with a 16 year old (you being 19) and for the final thing..I find to be confusing is..how could last night have been the first night she enjoyed it..seeing as how it was her first time...just cause it was her first time does not mean it was enjoyable..and in fact it most likely hurt her since there should have been a lot of blood etc..

    Either you are a troll or you have one messed up story...

    • I'm not really sure what question your talking about, since he doesn't have an account on this. And what I ment by "before this she was a virgin" was that we had done it twice, and that was the third time, so It was starting not to hurt as much.

  • Unless you're a pro military person, I'm not sure how you can make it up to her Navy Seal Dad. There is no such thing as an "ex navy seal." He can kill you with his pinky, literally. You have to establish some self-respect and confidence. Navy seals are type A, alpha male types. They like other type A, Alpha males. Be confident with who you are. Have a talk with him.

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  • Her brothers are soldiers, her dad, an ex-SEAL. She's a virgin. They catch you f*cking *in their house*. And your "Very Bad Idea" light never came on, not once?

    Either you're trolling, or you have a serious death wish.

  • this happened with my boyfriend he got me pregnant I moved out end of story

    • We used protection, and she's not pregnant..

  • Wow. You knew her brothers and father were military and you porked her WHILE THEY WERE IN THE HOUSE? Way to think that one over.

  • Theyll never like you trust me I'm an older brother my sisters 16 and I would have a problem with her being with a 19 year old plus they caught you f***ing that's pretty disrespectful lol some of my sisters bfs have been pretty cool but I won't like them just because it's her boyfriend I don't know it's a weird protection thing and by the way your so lucky you didn't get the sh*t beat out of you lol no way I'd walk in on my little sister losing her virginity without whoopin some ass haha

  • LoL , you're F***ed !

    well try to show them that you love their sis. / daughter and that its not that you just want to f*** and leave , also be a polite person but don't forget to be a man, be respectful and show some military traits in you.. good luck

  • Rookie mistake. I think you are going to have to enlist to gain any respect in that house.

  • So did you finish or did they interrupt before you came? That would suck! What about your gf? Did she come or did you leave her hanging?

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