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Girlfriend wants me to get circumcised? please help?

I've been with my girl for about 9 months and she made me wait for sex since the begining, but recently when we tried and i pulled out she seemed to be completely distracted by it. I could tell she wasn't in the mood no more and i was like wtf, i brought it up today and she told me that all her prior bfs were cut and thats what she preferred. So basically hinted that i should circumsized, I really do love this girl but im not sure if i wanna go ahead and get snipped. Please if anybody has any recommendations, advice, or solutions on handling this issue it would help a lot. thanks guys please offer some wisdom my dudes!!!
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  • I didn't vote in your poll because it's up to you what you do.

    Look. Firstly it's your body. She really shouldn't dictate to that degree what you should and shouldn't do. I mean what if it was bigger than previous, would she expect you to cut an inch off? No. From a woman's point of view, when you're doing your thing down there I don't care if you've got foreskin or not - I'm a bit more focussed on other things! The only thing I ask is that you keep it clean and not smelly. Basic hygiene. I think she's making mountains out of molehills.
    Secondly, she shouldn't be wishing you were like her exes. I mean, they aren't together for a reason. And there should be more to life than a bit of skin on the end of it. Although it's horrible, it's also natural to compare on a subconscious level - you are seeing if your current mate is better than your last. It's natural. You just don't voice those thoughts.

    It's completely your choice, but the relationship should be more than that in my eyes. I mean my current boyfriend is the smallest man I've had, but sexually most satisfying and it's other things in the relationship I care about. If someone asked me to describe our relationship, I don't instantly think of the bedroom. I think of his kindness, his generosity, and how well we get on. He is circumsized, he's the first and only man I've ever experienced like that, and honestly I prefer it. Not because it feels better but because my ex wasn't the best at washing his out and it smelt. Aesthetically I find a circumsized penis more attractive, but I wouldn't insist you got it removed. ITS YOUR CHOICE and there's more to life than an inch of skin.

    Good luck hun.

    • Thanks for the great input, don't think imma go through with it

    • Honestly I think that's for the best. You've grown up with it if you removed it it would be odd to you. If it results on a break up then your girlfriend is very shallow

  • I have mixed feelings about this, because yes, you should always be yourself and expect people to accept you and not try to change you, but on the other hand, let's look at it like this:

    Most guys want their girl to be shaven (not pubic necessarily, but legs, under arms, etc) and won't date a girl if she decides she wants to be all natural and grow the hair out, right? It wouldn't be unreasonable for a guy to ask his girlfriend to shave because in a relationship, you can still love and want someone but want them to change a minor thing about themselves to make you feel more attracted to them. That's part of being in a relationship, compromising.

    I get that this is a layer of skin and not hair, which makes the decision a little more difficult to make. I say if being with this girl and satisfying her sexually is more important than your foreskin, go for it. However, if you feel that you're not able to go through with it without feeling like you're changing too much of yourself to satisfy somebody, then I suggest you don't.

    A bit of an indecisive answer, but it's the best I got.

  • That is your penis!!! You don't need to change it for some girl (I realize you love her, but I'm trying to make a point). And just so you know there are girls that love them some uncut penis (me!). Maybe see if you can't get her to get along with it. I think uncut penis's are super cute, they kinda look like they need to be cuddled. It's like a penis with a cute little sweater. I never been with a guy with a circumcised penis, but my best friend describes them as aggressive looking. I don't think I would like that. So maybe if you guys take out the penis even when you are not having sex, desexualize it in a way, that could help. I like to play with my bfs penis even if we are not going to have sex.

    • Wow thanks, that made me feel better

  • Preference is one thing. Making it a requirement is another.

    Never mind the money, but would she get breast implants if you told her how you actually preferred bigger breasts than hers because all your previous partners had big boobs?

    Or if she already has big boobs, would she get breast reduction surgery because you like smaller boobs than what she's got and you're turned off by hers?

    Circumcision is not a compromise. If you want one, then you can do that by giving her time to get used to it. Maybe she'll come around; maybe she won't. It might have just been initial shock on her part, but if she doesn't, then you're better off leaving her.

    • Yea I guess ur right

    • She's likely trying to get past it, if she's still with you. Just wait it out. Good luck.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm cut and trust me, the procedure hurts like hell plus god forbid something were to go wrong...
    I wouldn't if I were you, if she really loves you, she'll love your foreskin too. Sure it may not be as aesthetically pleasing but its you.
    But at the end of the day it up to you, you have to make this decision, for yourself.

    You could break up with this girl and meet someone that loves foreskin.
    Just ask her if he can't stand it or if its just something she prefers.

    Like you may prefer larger breasts... don't do anything you can't take back.

    If you do get cut, so what anyway. You'll look nicer, have a lower chance of developing an std, no dick cheese...

  • Do it do it!!! Have someone video the look on ur face when this dude is cuttin on ur dick!!! Look foward to seeing it on u tube. And they gotta pan the video to ur girls face as she is crackin up!😄😃😃😃😃😄

    • Are u cut?

    • Yes i am but from when i was a baby

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  • Mate if your foreskin is so tight it doesn't retract fully all you need to do is sit in a hot bath and over a few hours stretch it right back. If you want it to remain retracted even when you're flaccid just go to the doc and have the frenum thats attached to the underside of the glans to the foreskin and that's it. You can alternatively masturbate it till it tears. it'll bleed a bit but saves a doctors visit.

  • At this age..
    It will hurt you like hell

    • have u gone through this?

    • No I did it when i was young But no matter what medicine you'll take the pain will kill you

    • do the head become less sensative?

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  • What if you said you liked girls with fake boobs and therefore hinted that she should get hers done - she probably wouldn't either

  • I don't understand how you being circumcised or not effects how it feels to her?

    I wouldn't recommend doing it, it feels very petty and stupid to me, my boyfriend isn't circumcised and even though I haven't had sex I still love how it looks uncircumcised, i've also heard it makes it more sensitive for guys, so why would you want to lose out on that lol

  • Since it's your penis and not anyone else's, ultimately you decide if you want to get cut or not. But if you do, don't get it done for your girlfriend, get it done because you want to. If you don't want to, then simply don't do it. As a girlfriend, she should really just accept and love the way you are. Not be busy comparing you to her exes.

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