Girlfriend wants to buy a vibrator but I'm not comfortable with it, advice?

[martydude]

So my girlfriend tells me she wants to buy a vibrator. She asks me what I think about it and I tell her that I'm not comfortable with her using it. She asks why and I answer that It feels like she is replacing me, I can't help how I feel. She tells me that she isn't replacing me it's just for when she is having alone time. I told her that I don't like it and she says quit trying to control me. I don't control my girlfriend because I know that's why she broke up with her ex. I'm trying to see it from her side but I can't get past the idea that she will like the vibrator more than me. Any help with this will greatly be appreciated.

[anon1111]

Honestly, I think you need to get over yourself a little bit here. Most women own vibrators these days - it's as common and normal as men having p*rn, and both serve the same function. If you jerk off to p*rn but you're uncomfortable with her getting a vibrator, you're a hypocrite. It's not going to replace you - if anything, regular masturbation makes most girls even hornier and she'll want to have sex with you MORE often.

If you're REALLY that insecure about it, I would recommend a product called The Understudy. It's basically a custom kit where you make a plaster mold of your penis, you mail it to this company, and they make a silicone vibrator shaped exactly like the mold you sent them. So your girlfriend will essentially be masturbating with a carbon copy of YOUR penis. My girlfriend has plenty of vibes already (which I'm totally cool with and encourage), but she got one of these last Christmas as sort of a joke gift and we made the mold together (which naturally involved her doing some pretty awesomely dirty stuff to get me as hard as possible), and then sent it off. A few weeks later my little clone came back ready for action. Plus, I gotta tell you, it's a pretty big ego boost to know that she masturbates with a vibrator shaped like my cock. We even use it in bed together - she'll blow me while masturbating with the Understudy. It's like there's two of me f***ing her.

[diabloknk]

Well, do you like your hand more than you like your girlfriend?

[Some1975Guy]

Not a fair comparison, what's wrong with her using her hand?

[goflipaburger]

I know this is a difficult pill to swallow because not all men know how vibrators might affect a relationship.

Although it's a somewhat unfair connection, p*rn is to men what vibrators are to women who use one. It's a release, not a replacement. It won't ever be better than you.

Maybe you should suggest to her that she should get one that reminds her of you. I think you might enjoy the thought of her thinking of you when you aren't around. She'll be wanting you the whole time.

[Some1975Guy]

Porn is to men what porn is to women. Toys are to women what toys are to men. Your comparison is irrelevant.

[DiamondKutt]

No guy feels better than a vibrator. It's nothing personal. Besides, even people who are in a relationship need masturbation & "me" time every now & then. I don't see why guys don't get that. No matter how good a vibrator feels, it isn't gonna replace the emotion & passion you get from intercourse.

On the bright side, you can play with it mutually & even use it on her in your sexual adventures with one another. :]

[Aries11w]

Do you masturbate? Do you watch p*rn? If your girlfriend asked you to stop doing those things would you be OK with it? It's the same for us and vibrators.

A vibrator can never replace you, it's just a way of pleasing yourself when boyfriend isn't available and it's also a different experience/sensation for us.

If your uncomfortable, how about you using it on her, that way your part of the action?

[missxbrightside]

Vibrators just allow us to have a guaranteed orgasm. It doesn't replace a boyfriend. It's no competition :P

[moloz]

Do you do the monkey?

[Jakedugi]

Vibrators are gross dump the hoe

[Anonymous]

It's ok it will feel great as she sticks it in you, use lube

[Anonymous]

Yeh, toughen up princess! It's her body, who are you to tell her what to do with it!

Use it with her, why are you afrade? Thine she might run off with it? Prefer it over you? Scared it might be bigger than you?

It's just a toy!