Girls, do big bulges disgust you?

I've always had a problem with hiding my bulge. I wear normal fit jeans, not skinny jeans and it is still very visible. the worst is when I go to the beach and when I get out of the water, it's just hanging there and the shorts shape around it. don't get me wrong, it's a blessing but I don't want it to be seen all the time by everybody. does this disgust you girls? or does it turn you on? I don't want to be that disgusting guy with the bulge. but if it's a turn, then that's good
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It is your body and you should not be ashamed or embarrassed by it. Don't listen to women who tell you that you should try to hide it. How insensitive and thoughtless that is! I do not know why some women sometimes speak this way to guys. Let a guy try to do the same to a woman and he will be labeled as a sexist.

    If you are the type of guy who feels as though you have to showcase your assets, or make your genitals a focal point, then you may make some people feel uncomfortable. I feel uncomfortable around women who do that with their breasts. I do not particularly like to have breasts flaunted in my face. However, if a woman is dressed tastefully, and it happens to be obvious that she has large breasts, she should not be concerned about discomforting or offending anyone. She is doing nothing wrong or disgusting. That may be how God made her, and it is none of my or anyone else's concern.

    You happen to have been blessed with a nice package. Most mature women can tell the difference between a guy who is trying to flaunt his assets and make sure you notice, and a guy who is just trying to dress normal, act normal and live a normal life. No need to look or feel embarrassed either. Just go on as normal, and trust me, many women will be impressed, and not disgusted. Don't forget, if you show that you are embarrassed by your size, you will draw attention to it as well. You will be better off not to act as though it is an issue at all.

    I hope to see you at the beach!

    • Well I have the same problem about having been blessed with a large package.. I wear long stuff to cover some of it up, but then I am told I donot dress normal...hmmmm... idk... As for what you said on boobs ... I think girls that have big boobs and wear tee shirts out at a club wants to be noticed and is offeded if a guy says something about their boobs! That p*sses me off! Then they should not be wearing flaunting shirts! am I right or wrong?

    • No you are not wrong. However, I would leave my thoughts to myself and not say too much about the big boobs. A woman may have cause to be upset for inappropriate or disrespectful comments she did not solicit. But I do not think that she has any business being upset because she gets looked at. As far as you trying to cover up your assets with unflattering clothes, do no such thing. Wear clothes that flatter you, no need to be embarrassed. Just dress well.

    • Thank you!

  • if a guy is showing it off then yes I am disgusted. but if he looks a bit shy about it and doesn't want to show it off then I think its nice and cute and would turn me on.

    • Believe me I do not try to show my penis off in anyway shape or form.

  • nahh. if you packin the heat imma be like dayummmm =]

Most Helpful Guys

  • well I hav faced the problem many times...n it feels so awkward to hide ur bulge...

  • Been there... I'm interested to hear how the gals weigh in...

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  • Why in the world would it disgust us. It's like us with boobs, does that disgust guys? A Big No Here!

  • Personally, I would definitely not mind. I would just have a problem not staring...and if I were caught staring that'd be embarrassing lol :)

  • definitely a turn on ;)

    • Would u still be turned on if it was average or a little small?

  • dude I have the same problem!

  • I would try to hide it : )

    • I always try to hide it... good answer!

  • I personally don't find this a problem at all. Its a total turn-on for me. Just as long as I don't get caught looking I'm fine. Its a little weird if the guy catches you looking unless the let you know somehow that it is okay.

    • How shud he let you kno that it's ok?.....coz then that would be flaunting no?