Girls, do boners freak you out?

I was making out with my girlfriend the other night and she noticed I was hard, she grabbed it and asked if I had a boner and I said ya. She smiled and said "oh that's new" or somthing along those lines and held me tighter and proceeded to make out. I don't know how to interpret that, do boners freak you girls out?
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If she is turned on by it then where do I go from there? I want to be more physical with er
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  • just ask her if she is interested in doing something a little more intimate like a hand job or blow job or you could do something to her, like touch her boobs, play with them, lick or bite her nipples but gently not too hard. You could also touch her p**** like either directly or through clothing ect. I assume your a virgin because you asked where to go from there but remember take things slow and ask permission first. good luck :D

    • i am, I do grab her boobs and sh*t but I want to go furthur. I am infatuated with this girl and want to know more about her!

    • tell me what you want to do and I can tell you how to do it k. I don't know how far you have gone so I don't know what to suggest

  • When my boyfriend first got a boner around me I was like, "Oh, hello." And then I wasn't exactly sure what he wanted me to do with it haha. It was awkward for like 30 seconds. But then we just went back to making out. I know they're normal, so now they don't freak me out. But when I first noticed his, I was kind of shocked lol.

  • Kiss her more passionately. Lean over her until you're on top. If she's on, it gives you a fairly good chance on exploring her and do more physical things with her.

    • i was on top of her, which makes it 100 times harder to "explore"

    • If you were on top of her.. and she didn't push you off, you should have tried your luck with slowly grabing her boob or something and see her really get into it.

    • i did to that

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Most Helpful Guys

  • She smiled, held you tighter and proceeded to make out, and somehow you think she is freaked out? She has given you BIG signs that she is happy that you have the erection. And she obviously desires to build on that (go further).

  • Uh, it turned it her on more likely.

    If your girlfriend doesn't like you being erect when kissing her, you're dating the _wrong_ girl.

    • re update, she already put her hand on it, so put her hand back on it and grind against it and see if she gets the idea.

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  • canmt you just let things develop, without pushing it if she grabbed your d***, she's not shy, so let her go at a pace she's comfortable with. you just enjoy it.

    • i feel like being the guy tho she would want me to take lead, what if neither of us makes a move... ever

    • no. everyone is differnt. as I said she grabbed your d***, you didn't put her hand on it, so she's fine building things on her own. besides, why don't you just ask her? and plenty of women tae the lead, its not really about which sex, you are. well, for me, I prefer I lead things 7 for sure him doing too little is way better than going too fast. but talk to 'her'., I think thatd be best. :)

    • how do I bring that up in conversation without it being completly awkward

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  • If she was freaked out, why would she hold it.

  • It doesn't sound like your girlfriend was freaked out. I wouldn't be freaked out by it (provided it was my boyfriend).

  • Nope, boners give us girls a good idea if you like what we do or not.

  • no way! I am turned on! I'm flattered that I have excited you to that point! I'm usually horny by the time you get the boner and I'm usually pretty wet... lol when I see that then I want sex! And I proceed to rip off your clothes and make sweet, sweet love to you! :D

  • No we love it!...it tells us that you're really turned on(because we probably are too):))

  • No I take it as a complement

  • no I tihnk its cute when guys get a boner when I hug them or make out ^_^ its a major turn on

  • Boners are actually a turn on

  • *Grabs your penis* Is this a boner!? . Interpret that as having a f***ing hilarious girlfriend.

  • No, boners do not freak me out.

  • i like it because it shows he likes what we do and usually I am wet too and when my ex had a boner I would held him thighter too and dry humping feels also good

  • No lol. At least not in my opinion. Its just a natural thing. Before my boyfriend and I ever had sex I thought it was funny because he'd act all shy and try to hide himself. Its normal though not freaky.

  • Boners fascinate me for some reason. I always wonder what it'd feel like to have an erect penis.

    • Your not missing out on much. I wish I could store things in my cooch like you women do :(

    • @andrew: you can also store things in your ass.

    • Oh, it's not as cool as it see-- *drop an xbox from her cooch* o.o;;

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