I couldn't find an answer choice that I agreed with on here! I'm not picky, but I sure would not appreciate as a surprise if the guy just up and came all over my face w/o warning! I guess my "general rules" are if I'm giving a bj, then I expect the guy to finish in my mouth. If we're using a condom, then I expect him to come inside it. If there's no condom, thennnn yeah, I'll pretty much tell him where to finish, i.e.-just go inside of me, or on my boobs or something :o)
I think one discussion about where-to and where-not-to is generally sufficient with each new partner. For example, if I tell a guy that pretty much anywhere is fair game, except that he'll have to okay it with me each time if he has any desire to finish on my face... One can assume that those rules apply to each sexual encounter with that person, unless otherwise specified. =]
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think finishing in the mouth is always the way to go
My body is fair game. He just needs to stay away from my face and mouth.
Generally I don't care where a guy finishes, within reason anyway. It doesn't bother me to have come on my body. I just require a warning if he's going for the face. Anywhere else, no permission is needed.
every girl is different, so this is a hard question to answer. If a guy is wearing condom, I don't mind if he comes while in me because the condom will protect me. I don't mind if a guy comes on my body either. Sometimes I get this strange desire for a man to come all over me. I don't know what that is about, but I guess just ask your partner what she is comfortable with, and go from there. Like I said, all woman are different, so there no right answer to this.
Is there a polite way to ask though?
Just ask what they are into? Say you know everyone is different & that you don't want to do anything she doesn't like.
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