Girls: do you care if a guy is a virgin or not?

so many men put an emphasis on sex because they think women don't want inexperienced men but experience doesn't mean you will be good in bed or be able to pleasure a woman. So I have to ask do you care if a guy is a virgin or not? I personally don't care if a guy is a virgin. I will respect him more if he is one than one that isnt.
I don't care either way
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I prefer guys that aren't virgins
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I prefer virgin guys
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the poll pretty much sums it up guys. women either don't care or they prefer virgins
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  • Truthfully I prefer that the guy is a virgin. I'm one and I've had many opportunities to lose it but promised myself I'd wait till the man I love comes into my life and I'd appreciate if my future boyfriend also had that mentality (obviously not waiting for a man lol but for a girl)... Yes, I'm sorta waiting for marriage too so it would mean a lot to me if he shared that same value. There's nothing more awesome to me than the idea of me my future partner both giving ourselves away together :P

    But I have to add I'm definitely not going to reject a guy just because he happened to not be a virgin but I take preference for sure in guys who are. However I draw the line with guys who have sex outside of serious relationships. I don't like the idea of being with a guy who's slept around.

  • I think that once I've experienced a sexual relationship, it won't matter as much. But now, as a virgin, a really experienced guy would be really intimidating and give me a lot of stress in that department... I'd always be wondering if he's comparing me to others in his mind, what "number" I am, how clean he is... things like that. I'd prefer my first partner or two to be either virgins like me, so we understand each other better, or a guy who just has a little experience (not more than a couple partners). But virgin trumps all for me, if I'm being completely honest.

  • I will not, I repeat, will NOT have anything to do with a non virgin guy. I won't date him, won't marry him, won't nothing. Nothing. It is vital that he be a virgin. I don't don't want a d*** in me that's been in other girls. The thought repulses me. I struggle even when he's kissed a girl before me.

    I'm certainly NOT the norm or the average and I'm probably the only girl out there like this, but there you go.

    • good for you. I know lots of guys who are the same way and there is nothing wrong with that. Stick to it and don't let anyone change your mind

    • You have serious problems.

    • Oh.. and seeing the word "repeat" is so amusing, tell me - WHY would a guy tolerate you having such past and be OK with following your standards?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • happy to hear that because that's what I am. I'm not questioning my sexuality or afraid of women, I'm simply saving myself for the right girl...who I intend to marry. it's my gift to her.

    • yeah women don't care they really dont... I think its sweet and great of you to save it for someone special. please keep that and don't let guys influence you or make you feel bad. by the way I'm premed and on your profile its says you are in residency. that's awesome! I have med school next :))) how was it?

    • It's no walk in the park. It'll test your limits as a human being. But if you develop good study habits, work in a study group, and prioritize what you learn with constant, consistent review you will succeed. A lot of it is knowing what to study (feel free to e-mail me about this when the time comes: john.k.nino@gmail.com). Things get easier after the first month and you will have a life. After graduating I'd say I definitely wouldn't do it again, but I definitely would do it once! ;-)

    • Im on a shared pc right now (free time between classes) so I will add you to my gag :) Would love to chat with someone who has been there

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  • I'm waiting until marriage, so it doesn't really bother me if a girl isn't okay with it. I've made my choice and I am sticking with it.

    • good luck to you and hang in there. You are different from so many guys and your future wife will respect you more for that :)

    • Thank you. I really appreciate it.

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  • I think it depends on the women I think that if a women or a man is a virgin is kinda sweet.It means they have tried to keep themselves pure.For their true love.But I think women would want someone somewhat experienced.So they don't have to keep saying do this do that.

    • See that's what men always think but as I said before experience doesn't mean you are great in bed. Its better to instruct someone who wants to learn rather than someone who assumes and thinks they know

    • True I agree.But tell me this wouldn't you get annoyed having to tell the guy everything.I mean I would think that is annoying.But I can see what you mean.I would think that you would want to just lay back and enjoy it not have to be a teacher.

    • no not at all. In the beginning with anyone new you have to show and communicate what you like in the first place regardless if the guy is experienced or inexperienced. Sex in general is about communication and showing/telling

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  • I don't really care.

  • don't care as long as they respect me and my body and me as a woman.

  • No "I'm a guy and want to see the results."

    I voted I don't care, as I don't care if a girl's a virgin, or if her number's 100+.

  • I think a lot of the girls that just want to hook up want a guy who isn't inexperienced while girls who want to date someone could really careless.

    • alot of women don't mind if a man is inexperienced even when it comes to sex, dating or both. He can be taught and learn. After all everyone is at some point.

    • I guess you could say that.

  • I've taken guys' virginity before and didn't mind teaching :)

  • I'm a virgin but I'm not having sex with a guy unless he's had at least a little experience

    • can I ask why that may be? From experience myself that doesn't mean a guy knows what you like. If you don't know than he won't know so before having sex you need to experiment with your body so you can communicate to him. Remember its not always easy to orgasm with a partner than it is with yourself

  • I lost mine later than most guys. At 22 I had a girlfriend freak out when I told her I was a virgin. I thought she would have been happy to be my first, but no. She broke up with me not long after. The only thing we ever did together was oral. I lost my virginity a year later and that girl never knew about it because I didn't tell her and I didn't wanna re-live history.

    • well not every woman is like that. I'm sorry that happened. We all have to learn at some point

    • Yeah, the data of your poll shows certainly says so. At first she said she wished she was still avirgin so we would lose it together, and to wait until she went on birth control so I could lose it without the condom. But in the end she changed her mind about the relationship and dumped me. I'm glad a lot of girls aren't like her.

  • I used to want a virgin but that was when I was a "virgin". If he wasn't a virgin then I only wanted a guy who had slept with less then like 3 people...all that went out the window with my ex! hahaha

  • Women virgin or experiences either prefer a guy with experience or don't care, rarely would they have a strict preference that the guy is a virgin.

    Guys on the other hand (ignoring the gag community), prefer virgins whether they are experienced or not

    there isn't any reason for guys to wait, I'm glad I lost my virginity... at least now I can enjoy it as much as I like and I'm more appealing to a girl who is a virgin of which I would only marry.

    • there isn't a reason why women should wait either. Stats show men and women are equal on the amount of partners. Women are just as sexual as men and should be having sex too and not waiting

    • you also cannot get mad if an experienced girl only will marry a virgin guy or a virgin girl won't take you because she only wants a virgin herself

    • there is value in a woman being a virgin whereas its a negative if we as guys are virgins. so no it isn't the same. i won't get mad if a virgin girl wants to marry a virgin girl because that's more or less rare as hell, they prefer experience or just don't care about it. they want a guy who "knows what to do", tiz reality

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  • Im a virgin at almost 25. And I want an experience girl who will totally corrupt me and make whimper. Is that hypocritical of me?

    • no not at all. You want someone who can show you how to do things. nothing wrong with that. Good luck

    • Do you think any experienced girls would actually be down with that?

    • of course! Id be down to show a guy

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