Girls giving a BJ

have been dating a girl for 2 yrs. she doesn't seem to be interested in giving BJs lately though sex is 4 to 5 times a week. can somebody help me. should be 1ce or 2ice a week at least right? any help would be appreciated
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  • OK from a girl's point of view, I say there might be lack of communication for sure. Ya it may all depend on ur girl but ya most girls do not like giving blow jobs. But at the same time some girls do especially if it's her boyfriend that she loves that she is pleasing. Ya just seeing his face and how much he likes it for a girl is a turn on in my opinion. So next time she does it maybe actually show how much you do like it. Or maybe you should try initiating it 1st ask her for it when ur both in the mood. Who knows she might of just thought you didn't like her doing it. Sometimes a girl jus needs to make sure her guy likes it.

    • Thanks for the reply. maybe my testosterone level is high and so like to have sex daily and she doesn't seem too. I do make her feel lovable but still wants more. She doesn't like me going down either though she is satisfied after it. I have told her many times about me liking BJ but still no response so I am getting confused

    • Ya I get her not liking you go down on her because I don like it when my boyfriend goes down on me because ya for me I feel a little too much. Also it is kind of embarrassing in my opinion when my boyfriend goes down on me. But ya with her not liking to give bjs I guess she is just one of those types and ya sex wise in my opinion having sex once a day is not much. me and my boyfriend usually do it at least twice a day. Sometimes you need to get the girl in the mood as well Something romantic like a vocation or a canddle lit dinner

  • I give my boyfriend a lot less bjs because we have sex so much. And he doesn't eat me out so why would I give him a bj? It's a lot of work and makes my mouth sore.

    He'll get more oral when I get more oral.

    I bet if you go down on her and really try to make it extra good then she will return the favor. This will make your relationship better.

    • Thanks for the reply. maybe my testosterone level is high and so like to have sex daily and she doesn't seem too. I do make her feel lovable but still wants more. She doesn't like me going down either though she is satisfied after it. I have told her many times about me liking BJ but still no response so I am getting confused.

Most Helpful Guys

  • there is no sex quote to fill, she might not like giving blowjobs for one or more reasons too or think there is other things you enjoy more.

    If you want her to have sex more tell her how much you like it in a way that doesn't make it seam like all you want is sex. Also don't be afraid to make noises while she does it because it will make her feel like she's doing something right and encurage her to follow up.

    at the same time you can try find out if she liked something you did way back like licking or being a bit rough. The key is comunication really you should both be open towards eachother.

  • "should be 1ce or 2ice a week at least right?"

    Who told you there's a magic number? It should the how ever often the two of you feel comfortable with. Blowing you is a gift, not a duty. If it pleases you, let her know. If she has some discomfort with that form of pleasure, discuss it like adults and figure out something that works for both of you. If she doesn't want to please you, the problem is not as simple as lack of blowjobs.

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  • Dude, you're getting sex. If she's not interested in giving head then talk to her about it. Personally, I'd take sex over blowjobs, better all round :)

  • push her head down and say 'bitch! give me a blow job' that should do it :)