Girls grinding on a guy's butt

I have been seriously wanting a girl to grind on my butt to orgasm. I had a girlfriend do it when she was drunk like 5 years ago but the other 3 girls I have asked, have been really turned off by my request. Why is that?
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So 90% of girls think this is weird/gay. It backs up my theory that a # of women (not all) are very narrow minded & hypocritical in bed. I have worn a wig for an ex so that she could imagine it was a girl eating&rimming her. I have worn a mask & pretended to be a breaking in to fulfill an ex's fantasy. The reason I find this hot is that one girlfriend got off and made grinding against my ass feel extremely hot. Girls seem to love to explore their fantasies but not guys (unless the girl likes it).
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  • Hi!
    I know this is an old post but I just wanted to say I understand.
    I find it really annoying that so many people are saying that this is gay, or "what a gay man wants" . Not true!
    Having sex with another man is what a gay man wants!
    I'm straight and although I have never desired anything near my ass, I have always been curious to whether the male gspot really exists.
    Well one day, I discovered it does! I discovered it can be stimulated from the perineum, meaning nothing has to go up!
    After practicing for a good while, I finally had the most insane orgasm, or should I say orgasms, I had like 3 at once!
    Most importantly though, I never once thought about having sex with a man.
    Also, my girlfriend has always loved the idea of tribbing/scissoring (going vulva to vulva with another woman). This is an act that massively turns me on! She had brought herself to orgasm by grinding on my leg a couple of times in the past.
    After discovering I could also get pleasure in a similar area, I suggested we (trib/scissor).
    We have done it 2 or three times now.
    She loves it and has had an orgasm fairly quickly every time.
    The first couple of times I did not reach orgasm but it still felt great and I still enjoyed watching and feeling her get off, and then the last time we did it, we shared an orgasm together.
    Was amazing! It wasn't the multiple orgasm I had experienced on my own, (that's hopefully yet to happen) to be honest I think a lot of my orgasm came from my piece making repetitive contact with her leg, or whatever, during the thrashing around and just the general hotness of it all, but either way it was great!
    ... and I didn't think about sex with a man once.
    It's not something we do often but like you said, having variety and trying new things is great fun!
    Plus, if you're doing it with a woman and not thinking about men, then it's definitely not gay!
    May be precieved as weird by some which I guess is fair enough. But why label everything?

    • Me and my guy tried scissors sex too. He knows it makes me climax so he lets me grind my clit between his butt cheeks. It drives me crazy

  • We love girls asses so we do them, but unfortunately they don't feel the same for us. So its always a turn off. also requesting can never do such things - you should wait for the heat to grow and get her wild - may be in that situation you many hint her to do and perhaps she will do by sheer arousal - but I doubt it will hardly work.

    • I agree that girls' asses are the most amazing thing. As for waiting for the heat to grow, with most girls, you can wait and wait but they will never do what you want unless you ask.

    • that's why I said - I doubt it will hardly work.

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  • I don’t know how old this post is but I decided to search if girls grinds guys butts. And I came across this post. my boyfriend lets me do it to him. He never asked me to do it, it just happened one day he was laying on his side and I was laying behind him and I started grinding on his butt I wasn’t doing it for anything other than just to feel his skin rub against my you know what. So then I rolled him over into his stomach because it started to feel really good. And I have been doing it to him every since and he lets me do it. He’s the first person I’ve done this with. So again it just happened. So if a guy came to me and asked me to do it out of the blue I would stop talking to him.

  • Maybe because they haven't done it before, not sure they'll do it right? Think you might be disappointed? To me this would be the obvious reason as I don't really see how a lot of girls would find the request weird lol

    • Not weird huh? :P

    • I didn't mean it like that lol. I ment I don't see how A LOT of girls would find it weird as there's A LOT of weird girls too - equals it out haha! Just for your infomation...I find it a tad weird :p

  • yeah that is kind of weird I would definitely think he is gay

    • Hahaha

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  • They probably found it odd or weird, but everyone likes different things

    I'd say that's far from weird

    • @UPDATE: OK, well it's still strange and weird. No one ever said that females didn't have strange requests. Get over it

  • You litterally ask girls to do that for you?

    • The girls I have been with tend not to be very experimental unfortunately. If you don't ask, you don't get what you want.

  • You mean press up against your ass? They may have been turned off because that is exactly what a gay man wants.

    • Wouldnt you agree that the update you posted applies to guys also? Lets see, what do you think a guy would say if I told him that it would get me really hot to see him kiss another guy? Would you do it? Because I've asked boyfriends to do that for me before and they said no. But its seems they find it completely normal for a girl to kiss another girl for him.

  • It's the best feeling on my whole pussy! I've tried it on my man before and we both enjoyed it. Sadly it was only one time. Speaking of it's making me throb so i just might pull his pants down and start grinding later 😉

  • *shrugs* I would totally do it and enjoy it...

    depends on the girl.. I'm very open minded though...

    just go to find the right girl to do it.. or make her at least try... *smirk* be persuasive...

  • I don't get it... Wouldn't work better if you were turned around? You do have a penis, right?

    • This is about variety. You do try new things right?

  • That's the kind of thing you don't "request". You just start dancing and soon someone will do it. Just get in the middle of two girls. That's usually what happens when I go to the club.

  • I would love it if a guy wanted me to do that because that's my biggest turn on. My longest relationship, he loved it and would even wake me up that way because he knew how much it turned me on. I loved waking up to him rubbing his ass up against me. But the next guy I dated, I had to explain to him that I like and why I like it so much and then he was totally okay with it. Now he even does it on purpose to turn me on. Ass or thighs.. either one does the trick!

    • Wow. You're the girl I need... Most are so lame.

  • Its not weird at all i love doing it even thinking about it makes my pussy throb id rather do that then actual sex

  • honestly I don't think I'd be able to orgasm that way so you'd probably be disappointed

  • Against your butt? How would your penis get stimulated then?

    • It rubs against the bed and hearing her moan and writhe is plenty of stimulation.

  • ...LOL that's weird. If I guy wanted me to grind on his butt, I'd think he was gay

  • it sounds a bit awkward and random, and not terribly comfortable or enjoyable for the girl, just saying but I am sure there are girls out there that would be into it

  • Not sure. o.o

    Thought I was the only one who liked doing things like that. I like to masturbate myself on my boyfriend til orgasm, but my favorite place is directly on his erection. Keep looking, maybe there's hope!

    • @ your update: I totally understand where you're coming from. Honestly though, it is a strange request ( I think you already realize that ), so the reactions you're getting are kind of expected. Can't blame you for having your preferences, they should be respected and not made fun of, but I can't really blame the others for thinking it's weird/gay. Though now you know that there ARE girls out there willing to be as open minded as you are, so don't let it bother you. :)

  • i would.

    i ask my boyfriend if I can do it to him all the time and he always says no.

    personal opinions I guess.