Girls/Guys, do you feel proud of yourself when taking someone's virginity?

Question

Do you take pride on yourself by being someones 'first'?

selfishstars · Accepted Answer

No, I don't feel pride.

How I feel about being someone's "first time" has less to do with the fact that they're a virgin and more to do with what the experience means to them.

If someone places a lot of value on their virginity, would only lose it to someone they love and/or really trust, then I would feel flattered that they feel that way about me. But I would feel the same way if someone felt this way about sex in general and wanted to have sex with me, regardless of if it were the first time or not.

On the other hand, if someone wants to lose their virginity to me simply because they are tired of being a virgin and wants to "get it over with", then that would likely make me feel negatively about the situation.

gummybear888 · Accepted Answer

virginity isn't everything. a douche bag who's manipulative or a genuine relationship, it's just a state in the period of someone's life. would I feel proud if I took someone's virginity? no not really, it's the stupidest thing to solely focus on in a relationship.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

guys should feel honored when it's given to them, but to feel proud to take it is a whole other thing.

Distant · Accepted Answer

I suppose, if you're young and proud OR you need to fill some void in your life. It's a bit of a compliment from the person but overall not a big deal. ~Distant

PsychedelicZebra · Accepted Answer

My girlfriend said she was "honoured" (Mostly, I think she was just relieved I wasn't a disease-ridden man-whore lol)

tohrment · Answer

I never have before, but would I feel proud? No. More like humbled.

moonlightromance · Answer

i would never have sex with a virgin that's just too weird

Hjominbonrun · Answer

yes. Was awkward meeting her husband, cos I kept thinking that I was there first and that he had to make do with second place.

Jesterface195 · Answer

Not proud

moviedude714 · Answer

guys feel proud about taking a girls virginity, but girls taking a guy's virginity, not so much, because the vast majority of girls prefer being submissive to guys in anyway