Girls and guys do you sleep around when you are travelling?

[Anonymous]

Just wondering, never done it... But I think before I ever settle down I need more sex experiences So I was wondering If I should do a world trip and meet some interesting Guys from different countries, well nobody would know that I sleep with these Guys and I would feel more experienced I know Guys do that anyway but girls well we are supposed to be nuns right?! I am tired of being a nun

[kentpaul]

This is funny. You want to hear that it's okay to go sleeping with strangers for the purpose of... experience. Bullsh*t! The only reason you're mentioning traveling is maybe because you don't want people where you live to think you're a slut.

The reality is this: it's your body and it's your life. If you want to get more sex partners, then by all means do it and make sure that you take precautions to minimize the risk STD transmission. There's nothing particularly immoral about sleeping with several partners before you settle down. If you feel like that's what you need to do before you commit to only one guy, then get it out of your system. But don't pretend that sleeping around is done as an academic exercise to acquire more sexual experience.

[Asker]

Of course Its also because of that but not only that by experience I mean different Guys with different backgrounds shapes and sizes so travelling is a part of the experience I bet as a guy You wanted to be with girls from all different races so Don't judge me just because I am a girl and I am not supposed to want that... And duh I wouldn't do it as An academic exercise that I was supposed to do... I would be just open to it, If the situation came up

[kentpaul]

I am not judging you at all. I'm fine with people having 100 partners if they want; I merely want you to be honest with yourself about your motives.

[Asker]

I want the freedom that Guys have... I wasn't raised to be sexual with strangers at all... My parents married virgins and they think That's a great idea for me, but I Don't want that... And I can't bring boys to My home or sleep in a Guys house so yeah for me I am only free when I am travelling so I do have My motives...i don't think I am brave enough to do it anyway, but interesting I am the kind of girls Guys wanna introduce to their mothers when they know me, so it has to be strangers...

[kentpaul]

There you go. Be honest with yourself. I'm not sure it'd work, though, the traveling thing. You'd have to travel a lot and sleep with a lot of guys. It'll be much more logistically difficult. You'd get much more sex if you dated several guys (either one after another or in an open relationship) than you would by traveling. Unless you live in a very small town, it shouldn't affect your reputation.

[Asker]

2 or 3 are already enough for me, I live in a big city but like I said I live with My parents so they would find out... I just Don't wanna be a one guy only...

[kentpaul]

Then do what you have to do. Have you considered swinging?

[Asker]

What is that? Changing partners? If So not cause I Don't have one

[kentpaul]

Many swingers are willing to take a third partner, so you wouldn't necessarily need a partner of your own. Just look into it. Just don't mention it to the one you intend to marry. =)

[Asker]

Oh no That's really advanced for me and I wouldn't do it it would be odd

[kentpaul]

Well, it's something to think about if you want to have sex with lots of people really quickly, joining a swinger's club. But really, there are many ways to go about it. The safest in terms of disease prevention is serial dating, but really, you don't have to travel. You can advertise on craiglist for a friend with benefits in a city that's a 2hr drive or so from your place. It wouldn't be a relationship, since you could break it off whenver... and you could switch FWBs whenever.

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

I'm a guy and I haven't and wouldn't :\ and I don't think I'd want to be with a girl that had lol. I might, but I'd probably not be interested at first. And no one expects you to be a nun. But it's just my thoughts on it. Do what makes you happy. Just don't get depressed if you come across a guy like me and you happen to be interested in him (as in a guy who wouldn't want to be with a girl who had done such). And don't regret anything. Basically that, just make sure you don't regret anything.

[Asker]

Yeah but how would You know? Who She has sleeped with girls Don't Tell like Guys and it could Be only 3 Guys in the whole world so how would You know... I am just saying I Don't think I will ever sleep with a stranger I am a virgin and My friends bug me about, but as I always avoieded a relantionship well I could have done it... Only while travelling as My parents wouldn't know... I wouldn't try to have sex with a guy that is not willing to do it... I will only do it, If there is a vibe for that...

[TheGodEmperorLeto]

I'd ask and it's pretty easy to tell if someone is lying if you pay attention. No matter how hard someone tries to hide it the truth can be seen in their eyes and how they speak and whatnot. If she's not willing to tell me or if she's lying, I DEFINITELY won't be with her and if I find out (you can't hide everything forever), I will break up with her. If she tells me straight up from the start, it will make me hesitate, but being honest makes her still appealing and I might give a chance.

[layla223]

not me. I want to do things the other way around. find the guy I want to commit to, and then experience things with him :) which I'm doing yay lol

[Asker]

Yeah but That's for later when You are ready I am not ready to be stuck with one guy yet I can do that when I am older... I just want fun before that, like all Guys want and do

[layla223]

if that suits you. but I'm only 20, nearly 21. only had 2 boyfriends, first lasted 3 years (from when I was 16), with second still now. never felt any need myself to try out loads of guys, and never feel stuck. we're all different though I guess.

[Asker]

You already been with more Guys than I did and I am much older so I Don't have much time... I Don't think Its a Good idea to setle so soon... Like You said everyone is different

[xperience]

lol. you wanna gain experience. than find a good guy and rock his world. that's how you gain experience. no ho'ing around

[Asker]

Not That's setle down Don't want that, I want different flavours

[Carping]

Good reasoning there girl LOL.

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[Libarena]

This is fairly common.

[madmark]

I use to travel all the time, I have a few times. Some thing different to enjoy

[Anonymous]

Is it something girls would do