Girls have you ever been molested? or known girls that have?

did you tell people? how long did it happen for? does it affect your sex life? my ex was molested by her stepdad but told almost no one. our sex was normal and she enjoyed having sex except for giving oral sex, she never wanted to do that. some girls don't ever want to have sex while others get sex crazed. it seems to be common in America I heard it's like 1 out of 3 girls will be sexually assaulted in their life
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Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm a guy and was molested by the girls next door when I was 9. It occured more than once and I didn't tell anyone. They were 4 and 5 years older than me. I think the experience is different for a guy. I thought it was great at the time, where, if I were a girl and the situation was reversed...it may not have been a great experience.

    I had intercourse with the both of them, but I don't consider it my "first time"...because it wasn't volutary. They are still friends of the family and mine and I still see them often.

    The only repercussions I had is that as I became a young man, I wanted to force myself on the two of them and see how they liked it. Well...instead, I dated both of them at the same time for a brief period when I was 20. They showed signs of abuse from their childhood from some of the things they liked and disliked. And I had a different understanding of what they did and maybe why. I learned later that their father used to sexually abuse them, and maybe they were re-enacting this out on me. I don't know...I can only guess.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I've been molested and I've been raped.Both are traumatic experiences. I only told the people I am closest to, and I didn't tell them for a long time. I was scared, and I was embarrassed. It was someone I knew as well, and I didn't want to cause waves around our mutual friends (where he calls me a liar and I lose friends etc.) Both haunted me for a while, but mostly when I remembered things about it in little flashes. I don't think it has ever had an effect on my sex life.

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