Girls having sex with guys they just met?

[Anonymous]

I've been hearing about this a lot more lately, mainly girls who meet guys at parties then either have sex with them or give them a BJ (which is usually the case). I'm starting to think most girls have done this now, and it's impossible for me to find a decent girl. To me, doing anything sexual with someone you just met is a deal breaker and I really don't want to date someone who will so easily do those things. Being a virgin myself, ideally I'd want to be with another virgin, but I'm totally fine with someone who isn't a virgin and lost their virginity to an ex-boyfriend because I'd have sex with a girl I was in a relationship with so I can't say anything about that. So can someone convince me that I'm only hearing about these kinds of girls, and there are still plenty of decent clean girls?

[katiesmuff]

Today's world has revolved around the theory that sex is just sex for fun and pleasure, and that no emotional attachment is necessary. As long as this is the attitude things will never get better, but will get worse. The world changes! Ask your grandparents how many times in there young years they ever heard of a couple moving in together (not married)? How often were children left unattended by a parent? Divorce existed but rare?

We have for the most part become a generation of very selfish people who pretty much think only of ourselves and what we want and enjoy regardless of the consequences of our actions.

[need2know21]

Well, I am a virgin. I think the same way as you, its gross to do things w/ppl you hardly know. I am not necessarily waiting for marriage but I am waiting for someone who I trust and want to give myself to. I think it would be easy for you to find someone if your lookin in the right places. Its easier said then done but going to the clubs or random parties prob won't give you the kind of girls your looking for.

[Rose-Red-Sunsets]

OMG I'M SO HAPPY TO HEAR THERE IS A GUY WITH SOME CLASS! I'm clean and decent but unfortunately a lot of girls do "give it up" easily, at least in the college town I live in. You just gotta really look for the good girls/guys I guess ;) lol

[Asker]

I'm glad to hear there are girls with class too :P

[azzhole725]

These sexually, permissive girls are few and far between. There are plenty women with class; there are also many gold diggers and heart breakers. Just make sure she doesn't lead you on.

[edgar334]

That's why I don't go to clubs. I just sit on the computer all day and watch porn. (lol jk about the porn)

[sweetnsassy23]

I'm not like that..I've never messed with a guy I just met! How can you be attracted to someone when you just met them? I tend to want to be more physical when emotions are involved and have taken the time to get to know the guy..so no not all girls are like that! You just have to pick out the weeds before you find a good one!

[drumalittle]

im not like that! so good to hear guys like girls who don't do all that!