TRIED on purpose? Never. I'm fully open about when I'm down for anal and when I'm not, and I dig it, so it's not like he'd have to try to trick me into it like that.
However, last week my boyfriend and I had a mishap, lol. We've done anal once together so far. He already knew I liked it, and that time proceeded to start with fingers in that area to gauge my reaction before actually going for it and trying to penetrate with his penis. And that began with a gentle nudging until I responded positively that I wanted to do that with him.
Our incident last week though, we were having sex like any other night we'd spend together after getting some alone time, he was entering from behind. We got going so fast and so hard that at one point when he pulled back, he slipped out. In his hurry to thrust back in at the same pace we were already going, he uh, 'misfired' and rammed his d.ick almost all the way into my ass. Really hard, and really fast. He affectionately refers to me as 'Niagara Falls', so after having vaginal sex for a while, I was pretty lubed up all over the area because of it, and he was definitely soaked in it, enough that he was able to penetrate 'the wrong hole' almost completely in one swift and excruciating stroke. =/ I immediately gasped out in pain and froze in place, body kind of in shock, legs shaking, and trying to catch my breath so I could breathe the pain away. He realized right away based on my reaction what had happened and immediately pulled back out, frantically stroking my back and my hair, apologizing profusely and with panic in his voice asking me if I was alright, if he'd seriously hurt me or not. It was obvious that he felt horrible about it and genuinely hated seeing me in pain, especially pain that he'd caused.
Once I'd stayed still for a few minutes and regained my composure, I again reassured him that it was okay because I knew it was an honest accident, he didn't mean to hurt me. He insisted that we could cut things short if I wanted to, but I declined, just asked that he give me a minute to make sure everything was okay because I DID want to continue, and had him check me for bleeding. =P After the pain subsided and he'd cleaned himself off well, we went back to having sex vaginally and all ended well, no real harm done. He cuddled the hell out of me afterward [more than usual, which is saying something], kept kissing my face, and continued to apologize, lol. Under ordinary circumstances where I'm prepared for anal and properly lubed/stretched before penetration, penetration isn't painful at all, only slightly uncomfortable for the first couple strokes until I'm used to it, then I can handle it pretty rough and often like it that way. But so roughly, COMPLETELY surprised like that out of nowhere with none of the necessities taken care of, is extreeemely painful.1 1 0 0That is pretty much what happened to me. It was my third time ever having sex and I got carried away. I slipped out a few times and one of the times I pushed back in she made a groaning noise but not the good kind. We both stopped and didn't say anything and had a very awkward silent moment and I rubbed her back and then we started up again. I think we were both embarrassed it happened and just wanted to forget. A month later I did it to her again. I have a method to prevent this now though lol.
Well don't feel too bad about it, lol, it CAN and obviously does happen to a lot of people at some point. And if she knows it was accidental, I'm sure she can tell you feel like crap about hurting her. But if it helps, seriously bring it up and talk to her about it.
We're broken up now. I know she knew I didn't do it on purpose because I stopped immediately both times it ever happened. I just hope I didn't hurt her much at the time. She played it off like it didn't hurt that bad but I'm sure it did. Now if I slip out I try not to jab back in, I press my head near her clit and slide down (or up) while pushing and so far I think I've ended up in the right hole since I made an effort to do that lol.
It's happened accidentally a lot actually. I just laugh and say "wrong hole". He's usually like "no it's not ;)" then we go back to having sex like usual. But if it was a new relationship I'd probably feel differently.
0 0 0 0A guy in a new relationship can easily do this on accident a lot lol. Honestly I can barely tell sometimes if I'm pushing in the wrong spot until she has a reaction.
My boyfriend has never fully penetrated me there by accident. It was difficult enough to get it in when we tried to do it purpose! However, occasionally he flounders and presses in the wrong spot.
0 0 0 0What signals do you give to let him know he is pushing up the wrong area? I'm curious because as a guy at that point I admit I'm thrusting in the dark at anything that feels warm lol.
I stop him, tell him, or guide him physically. Just whatever feels natural- it's not something I think about a whole lot.
Cool. I'm confident I won't accidentally push in the wrong spot with girls anymore but am curious to know signs just in case I do. It should be easy to tell you would think but us guys can get carried away. When I first started sex I had more trouble aiming my penis than I should have lol.
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I'm still a virgin, but is that area really that slippery?
0 0 0 0Wetness bro. So I hear.
Not at first, no, but some girls get *really* wet, and after 20 minutes of going at it, her juices can be everywhere. Plus, you'll have them all over your penis too, so accidents can happen.
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5 0is kind of an awkward situation lol but it happens often
0 0 0 0Do experienced guys do that also or only guys that are new to sex?
both. But they pull back as soon as they see is wrong place. Well and then this guy that tried to keep going...
Yeahh it's like, slipped out b4 when the guy goes too fast, and pushed up against the..wrong hole.. but def has not gone in! :o)
0 0 0 0With my first girlfriend when I was pretty much still a virgin I missed her vagina and pushed almost all the way in the wrong door lol. It was pretty embarrassing for me and I'm sure even worse for her.
I bet! I'm surprised she didn't say anything- it makes me jump like every time..
"def has not gone in!"...yet ;) lol
You know sometimes it does slip and it happened but my boyfriend just puts it back where it belongs..so it does happen but it doesn't penetrate it just pushes.
0 0 0 0You're lucky. When I was inexperienced I accidentally kept slipping out and was frustrated and pushed all the way in her butt for one push lol.
That's never happened to me. I always ask for anal, that's the only time he puts it there.
0 1 0 0ahhaha fu ckin right I like girls like you
Never, and I would be really upset if it happened because it would hurt and possibly injure me
1 1 0 0I get that. I was young and dumb I guess. I was a virgin and over excited so when I slipped out I pushed in the wrong hole for a second. Stupid...stupid ...stupid of me.
It's okay, you didn't mean to. I worry guys prefer anal, even when the vagina is tight :(
I like a vagina better lol Sounds funny saying it!
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