Girls I need advice on masturbation?

[Anonymous]

I'm lost, don't know what's going on because I don't feel anything when I try to masturbate. I Haven't gotten any toys yet. I try fingering and rubbing my clit and I feel myself feeling myself but that's about it. lol no "omg that feels so good" feeling. I'm thinking I probably just need tips on fingering but I thought the clit was supposed to be that sensitive that when you rub, you feel all good and sh*t. not happening. maybe mine isn't sensitive like its supposed to be, is that possible? its like, no orgasm for me. no pleasure at all. no fun. frustrating. im a virgin, but more interested in girls anyway, just to clear the air. I don't want to be with anyone before I know how to get myself off though. guys: you have it so much easier. id love to be able to just jack off so easy. no fair. :/

[eithyy]

You might not be super sensitive which is why you're finding it difficult to orgasm. Try using a little more pressure, different motions, that kind of thing. If you're still not feeling anything, use a finger to raise the hood of your clit and stimulate it directly. But be gentle! If that STILL doesn't work, you might not be in the mood for it. Masturbating to orgasm is as much mental as it is physical. You've gotta really WANT to to orgasm. So. That's all the advice I can give you at the moment besides maybe getting a small vibrator when you get a chance. Good luck!

[RedStiletto]

If you are into girls...why not get a girl on girl p*rn (you can find one online) and watch it. After a bit you should notice a pulsating feeling around your clit and get really really wet. Don't worry so much about fingering yourself right now...focus on the "trouble" spot which is your clit. After you are REALLY aroused by the p*rn or whatever else you choose, THEN touch yourself and see if you feel a difference. But don't touch yourself until then...it will be like trying to force it. Don't touch until your body tells you to! Have fun :)

[Anonymous]

Okay well usually you have to feel horny so you do have to watch something that well turn you on. Once your turned on everything else would be easier but its not only about the action when it comes to masturbating you have to like fantasize too. Like picture a hot sexy guy on top of you stroking your hair while his d*** goes in and out and imagine how that will feel, and when you masturbate it helps when you spread your legs far from each other.

[Belgie]

Clits are each unique. Some girls have really sensitive ones. Others can burn out vibrator after vibrator trying to get themselves off.

It does appear like yours is a rugged tough little beast, which is able to withstand a lot of physical pressure. It just means you'll find it harder to orgasm, but not impossible.

For example, if you are with a girl, she'll probably be able to go to town on your clit, sucking it really hard like a mini-cock, or even using her teeth on it. (Something a sensitive clit could never take.)

[sa230e]

These sex-ed websites might interest you. There's some really good articles and tips, techniques and stories submitted from people from all over the world.

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Practice makes perfect. I think once you actually get it and start having multiple orgasms you won't envy us anymore.

[KERMlT]

try a Shower massager.

Women have it easier, you can masturbate without anyone really noticing. Not visible boner to hide or rapid hand motion needed.