"Girls need love to want sex, guys need sex to feel loved."

"Girls need love to want sex, guys need sex to feel loved" Can someone explain this..
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Most Helpful Guys

  • My take:

    Girls need to feel loved because they need a man who they think will take care of their young. Love for a women helps the women try to decide if the man will be a good father and help raise the young well.

    Guys need sex to feel loved because they need to know they will produce young for the next generation and to keep the species as a whole from becoming extinct.

    Haha, scientific answer. No one really thinks this when in a relationship, it's just how the science works out.

  • What's to explain? Girls want emotional love. Guys want sex.

    Which is not to say girls don't want sex, or guys don't want love, but when it comes to priorities, see above.

    Why is that hard to understand?

    • Well it says guys need sex to feel love, and someone told me with guys sex comes before love...? is that true?

    • I won't say sex comes before love for guys--but if you won't have sex with us, we are definitely going to figure you don't love us. so, it's a condition of us feeling loved, it's not so much about which comes first.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It means girls want to feel loved by the guy and want to be in love with him before they have sex with him whilst guys need to have sex with a girl to feel loved by them-they think sex shows she loves him.

  • Girls don't need love to have sex... If your attracted to someone and want to have sex go for it! Love and sex don't have to go together..

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  • This is so so true!

  • Girls feel that they should have sex only with someone they love while men feel that the women loves them only when he's had sex with them so they feel pleased :)

  • Men. Men men men men men. Is that enough of an explanation?

  • That needs resolves like this when someone is an animal needs sex to fill wishes, don't ya?

    I get in love when the contact is superb in the lives

  • Basically a girl wants to only have sex with a guy she's attached to or loves, and a guy thinks that if you don't have sex with him and are in a relationship with him then he will feel as though you don't like him or love him, because you won't give him sex.