Girls, receiving oral sex or using a vibrator?

[peace-love-couture]

I'm asking girls because I'm a girl and want their perspective...unless you were once upon a time a chick and became a dude. Do you prefer to receive oral sex or to use a vibrator on your clit? Assuming you can orgasm from both... and what makes them different? I've never received nor do I have any plans to, but I think vibrators(and fingers) work amazingly...I've just been turned off from oral sex, by the general male attitude towards giving.

[Anonymous]

(I'm answering from my bf's account cos I don't have one on here)

Vibrators feel great because they keep that pace and you can work them how you like it best, so they're great for that.

But I LOVE getting oral so much more than using a toy. The feel of an actual person down there is so much better than a toy. And on top of that, if he can get you off through oral then it's just indescribable. My boyfriend get's insanely turned on just from pleasuring ME, and has come from giving me oral while jacking himself off before. Super hot

Maybe you've just slept with guys that had a bad attitude about it. The guy's I've been with love giving oral and I've never had a problem receiving it from anyone. If you can find a willing guy that isn't up his own ass about giving you oral, you definitely need to coach him on how to get you off with his tongue. It'll open up a whole new world for you lol

[peace-love-couture]

I'm not forcing someone to do something they don't enjoy and I don't really care what you think about people who have a preference not to give

[Opinion Owner]

(This is not her responding now) Jeesh, calm down lol. She was just saying that it's not men in general that say things like they don't enjoy oral sex. And you asked a question and she gave a perspective. No need to jump down her throat all defensively like that

[peace-love-couture]

I'm not jumping down her throat, I'm telling the truth. I'm not forcing someone to do something they don't want to do

[Opinion Owner]

And you aren't expected to. But what she was saying is that it isn't a general sentiment with guys to not like giving oral. Perhaps you've not met a guy that loves giving it, perhaps you've never received good head, perhaps you've listened to the crazy guys on here too much. All she was saying is that it's not something ALL guys say or feel, so there are ones that actually like doing it and there would be no 'forcing' involved.

[peace-love-couture]

If I listened to the people on here, I wouldn't be feeling how I feel. But most people on here bs about their love for giving oral

[Opinion Owner]

Then you should take some time away from this silly site lol. It's skewing your view on the rest of the normal male population.

[peace-love-couture]

Not really. if it skewed my view of the rest of the male population, wouldn't I be receiving sex? get a clue

[Opinion Owner]

Well you've got it in your head pretty firmly that men seem to be anti-oral, when that's just not true.

[peace-love-couture]

that's not true for the white knights on here

[Opinion Owner]

Then why listen to the jokers on here? We're going back to the original point of getting off this site lol

[peace-love-couture]

Because I wanted a females opinion on which is better

[Opinion Owner]

And she said "But I LOVE getting oral so much more than using a toy"

[peace-love-couture]

And the rest was unnecessary

[Opinion Owner]

So much for trying to offer words of experience to you. Seems you have an axe to grind and are ready and waiting to fly off the handle at someone. Have a nice day

[Applenuts]

It seems most women never receive good oral sex so they figure they just can't orgasm from it. I know when I give it I have always paid attention what my woman likes and try to build off of it. I have had girls tell me don't even bother I won't get off and then beg me to stop because they were having multiple orgasms. Now I'm married, my wife wants it all the time. She is worse than a man! Lol. Plus, I just love doing it. I always take care of my woman.

[Betwyn]

For the most part, I prefer my fingers to a toy...

but a guy who is good at oral.. or a guy who really enjoys it and will take some direction...

OMG..

if you find a guy that wants to.. really wants to.. isn't just willing...

Try it..

if you still don't like.. lesson learned...

[peace-love-couture]

I'm good

[Betwyn]

okies... I'd say try and keep an open mind.. but I know how I am when it comes to anal lol...

[teasegirl]

I don't have any toys, that said I love receiving for a little.

Btw some guys love giving oral. I know this guy tht begged me to let him go down on me. I didn't blow him back or anything he was all about eating... You don't know the right guys that's all.

[peace-love-couture]

My boyfriend is the right guy for me...so I do know the right guys But I forget that on girlsaskguys, the 'right guy' is based upon over exaggerated oral sex

[teasegirl]

Well then are you allergic to his tongue or what? You said you have never received it because if his attitude you are not interested. So he is the right guy but with a bad attitude? But I'm just saying the "right or wrong" attitude exclusively aiming YOUR ORAL SEX question. And I meant "right guys" as in guys that like giving oral.

[peace-love-couture]

I have no desire to receive... if I did, then we'd be incompatible and he'd be the wrong guy

[teasegirl]

But you already said that you don't want anything to do with it because of guys attitude. Like you are traumatized by it. I'm not questioning your relationship at all. I'm just saying your excuse is not a valid one since is based on your perception of (some) guys attitude. Your general statement is not fair for the "general male" population.

[peace-love-couture]

It's pretty valid in my reality. Maybe not yours, but for mine it is. And as a result, I have no desire to try it

[Anonymous]

vibrator=quicker more powerful your control

guy=more pressure you need your mind stimulated and its just hotter to know he likes it when you get off

[teasegirl]

I don't know why anyone down voted you...

[Opinion Owner]

agreed...lmao ;)

[peace-love-couture]

+1? it was probably the vibrator part

[teasegirl]

Lol some people smh.

[Opinion Owner]

prudes ;) they just jelly. vibes cost a lot

[scooogy]

My tongue down there would just cost her a smile :)

[lace1228]

I haven't been able to have an orgasim from oral and sadly don't own a vibrator :(

[teasegirl]

Don't you have fingers?

[Betwyn]

That's a little hurtful, no? Maybe she lost them in the great table saw accident of 2009?

[lace1228]

the question was about oral and vibrators but anyways to answer your question it is yes I have fingers and yes they work great thanks for asking.

[justme20]

receiving oral. Sex toys do nothing and I mean nothing for me

[sammy67]

I prefer receiving oral sex it just feels really Good

[Anonymous]

oral feels great and I enjoy but I feel pressured to finish quick because I don want my guy getting a numb face or anything. so I usually don't come from oral sex but I can always count on my vibrator to get me off anytime. its my go-to.

[Anonymous]

oral is nice, feels great, but I can't quite get off from it

but I always can get off with my vibrator

[Anonymous]

A lot of guys are stingy about oral, so I don't really expect it. It's sad and unfair, but true...

[peace-love-couture]

I think it's perfectly fine to expect it if it's something important to you You'll just have to be upfront with the guy about it being a necessity