Girls:when you lost your virginity...what were things that made it enjoyable?

What did you like from the guy? I'm a virgin and when I do have sex it will most likely be to a virgin. What did you like the guy to do? I'm talking about stuff like play with your boobs in a certain way, kiss your neck, moaning, etc. When I lose it I want to make sure the girl enjoys it a lot but don't want to be to advanced.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I was 17 and my boyfriend was 21 and he was way more experienced but we planned it out together> He got a hotel room for the weekend and we started kissing he kept telling me you don't have to do this because you think you have too! But we had lost and lots of foreplay and he gave me a few orgasms during foreplay! Then the time came and he again told me I did not have to do this and I said no I want too and I want you to be my first so he kissed me and then he pushed very very very slowly in me and he kept asking if I was OK and he would push a little more in and stop so I could try to get used to him inside me! But he went really slow and he told me he loved me as he looked in my eyes and how beautiful I was and after he carried me to the shower held me while we were in there! He made my first special and I will remember how he treated me! I didn't enjoy the sex because it hurt like hell because he was BIG but he did everything he could to make it as comfortable as he could!

  • Now I like it rough, but on my first time I was DYING of fear.

    My boyfriend is was older and way more experienced, so I though he'd just shove it and get it over with. But actually he was very sweet. He made sure I was super comfortable, super lubricated (I remember that the foreplay took like, 20 minutes!) and that I was sure.

    Just before he took my panties he asked me if I was sure I wanted to do it, plus he was very gentle, he pushed steadily but slowly, he keep asking me if I was hurting (I was hurting like hell, but I said I was fine LOL), he kissed me, hold my hand, stroked my hair.

    I'll be honest, I didn't even enjoy it that much (did enjoy the foreplay tho!) because a) it was kind of painful and b)I was just paralyzed with "dear lord I'm getting laid".

    After we were done he asked me if I was OK, what was on my mind, we cuddled for a while and then we took a cute romantic shower :)

  • Like all of the other girls said just be very gentle. Honestly for most women the first time is extremely painful, I know that it was for me. My boyfriend just kept asking if I was okay and went very slowly. He talked me through it, and was very understanding.

    Just do what you can to get her turned on; oral, fingering, kiss her breasts, maybe a massage? And know that no matter what you do it will probably hurt for her, it won't be anything that you did and it will be much better for her the next time.

Most Helpful Guy

  • When you're there, your instincts will lead the act.

    You always know what you do in there even if you're a virgin or not.

    Or if you still can't comprehend how to lead, watch p*rn. It helps a lot.

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  • Just be gentle.