Giving head for the first time.. does anyone have any tips?

Every guy I know wants me to give them head and I've always been a little nervous . And I want to make it worth their while. I'm not exactly sure how to do it... all I know is I suck their penis... guys and girls... I need tips. And this one guy said if I make it good for him we can sex afterwards too. Any tips on how to make him make him go crazy?
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  • Yes, you can follow this step by step guide:

    1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.

    2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

    3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

    4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.

    5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

    6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

    7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

    8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

    9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ---->
    10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.

    Good luck

  • You don't really suck...well, you can, but that isn't the point...the point is friction, bobbing up and down, or rubbing with your lips and tongue. Sucking actually does nothing.

    You can lick it like a lolly, or nibble like an ear of corn...just don't use your teeth, contact between dicks and teeth is never a good thing. Or the basic, put the whole thing in your mouth and bob on it, but you have to get your mouth open far enouth you aren't scraping teeth, and that can be hard if he's big. ( just fyi, I know this because I'm big, not because I'm gay).

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well I'm not as experienced as ever matter a fact I'm just starting to do it myself buht if youh want to start the best option is to start small, like first don't even do the whole jump right in nd& start sucking away thing, 1st just get it close to youhr mouth nd& just stick it in nd& play with it a little, so that when youh really want to do it youh won't be as shy, buht youh can never be bad at giving head, giving head is mostly in the mind of the guy its just the thought of someone's mouth on their penis is what gets them all turned on nd& erotic, buht the only thing youh need to watch out for is TEETH,! as everyone knows the penis is the most sensitive spot on a guy nd& when a soft nibble (nd& ii mean EXTREMLY soft) can be sexy,you have to watch out because it may hurt them, buht when youhr actually doing the deed don't forget to play with their balls because guys love that! nd& just be creative with youhr tongue, swirl youhr tongue on his head nd& even lick his balls a little buht all I'm saying is that youh can never be horrible or bad ^-^ good luck!

  • While I do think you should have better reasons for performing oral, its your life...make your own mistakes. As for giving head, one thing I do that my boyfriend LOVES is flicking the very tip of the head with your toungue...it tickles them and the squirm with pleasure. Another thing is wrapping your lips around your teeth, that way you don't kill the guys dick with your teeth. You also don't have to deep throat if your nervous about it, what you can do is hold the shaft with you hands and suck the head while stroking with your hand, it kinda extends the amount of of penis you pleasure. I would moan as well, guys love that...pretty much just worship his penis and he will be pleanty pleased.

  • You're under 18 and I'm guessing not married, and "everyone" wants you to give them head... ugh.. Lame.. Don't give in. Why not be a lady and make them want you? Just don't give them anything. Have some respect for yourself, save yourself for marriage. Focus on school not sex and oral.

    Serious you do these kind of things, the word is going to get out and your reputaion will be horrible.

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  • Tell him HEEELLLLLLL NO! Because he's a friggin d*ckhead if he thinks he can speak to you that way... that's sure to make him go crazy!

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  • Its kinda like giving a hand job with your mouth. Don't use your teeth for one...and press your tongue on their tip because that has a lot of nerve endings and will feel good...if he doesn't fit all they way in your mouth use your hand at the base of his penis and give that part of his penis a hand job while you give the rest of it a blow job.

  • ahhh k, well I would think you would do it if you want to please ONE GUY IN PARTICULAR... but not a whole gang.

    srsly, have some brains and dignity.

    but whatever, if it makes you feel important to them...

  • I'm with the other anonymous answerer. The important question isn't how to perform oral sex, but why in the world would you want to? Find someone who at least has an ounce of respect for you before becoming sexually active with them.

  • You shouldn't be giving head just because every guy wants you to, and how horrible that a guy actually acted like he'd give you permission to have sex with him if you gave him good head. I don't know who these people are, but STAY AWAY FROM THEM.