Giving my boyfriend BJ, do you think it's wrong...

To practice on another guy first? I've never given a blow job & don't want to disappoint my boyfriend. I have a friend who wouldn't mind me giving him one & if I did it wrong to him it wouldn't matter because we aren't dating. I just want some practice, I don't want to humiliate myself in front of my boyfriend...
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And again, my update was deleted. First of all, this question is not real. I do not have a boyfriend or a friend I'm going to practive oral on. Second, you don't need to answer this question. I've closed it...
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  • Practice wherever you want :) just do like this:

    First, get your mind straight. Just because it’s called a “blow job” doesn’t mean you should view it as a job. He can see it on your face if you don’t enjoy sucking on his “friend” – and that’s NOT the attitude you want to convey. You have to love his cock.

    It’s all about preparation. Make every blowjob one of a kind, unique, memorable. How do you prepare? Candles, good lights, music, some wine, fix up the atmosphere, spice it up. Look good. Make it special.

    Throw him in the couch. Seductively, naughtily, with a sexy smile on your face. Look at him with fascination. You slowly get on your knees in front of him, unzip and take his pants off. Make a happy, surprised look – as if you just saw your favorite ice cream, and you are starving to death.

    Men are visual. Pull your hair back, so that he can see you completely and enjoy the view. Massage his legs seductively, get closer to his cock. Before it grows large, put the entire thing in your warm, wet mouth – moan with pleasure. Slowly suck on his **** as it grows large in your dripping wet mouth.

    A few “aaahs” and “mmms” are essential. There’s nothing better than the magic words when giving a blow job. No BJ is perfect without the right words entering his ear. Compliment him, tell him how much you love His **** in your mouth. Use your hands. Combine fast and slow strokes. Be his p*rn star, not a nun.

    When you get tired, rest your mouth, stroke him. Be his “slut”, be dirty, sexual – free. Do whatever you want to do. He won’t think you’re a slut if you swallow, on the contrary – he’ll love you for it. So get dirty and slut it up.

    Speed it up as you come to the finish. Involve his balls in the game. A perfect blowjob isn’t just with your mouth. Use your whole body. Let him see your sexy ass, thongs, a sexy necklace. The way to turn him on is by being turned on by yourself. You have to feel sexy in your body. It’s all about positioning.

    Tickle his balls, lick them and suck on them gently. Use your sexy nails to drive him wild. Hold his shaft, lick it up and down sexily while looking him deep in the eyes.

    Now you start pumping his **** faster. Fast, and short strokes. Pump, pump and pump some more. Moan louder, suck harder, stroke faster. And then – he starts shooting, and screaming, and popping his eyes out of his brain. Pull his **** out and pump it out gently. Open your mouth, show him what he gave you. Giggle. Then swallow all of it. Smile happily, give his **** a few more kisses and sucks – clean it up. ;) Of course – you can always get even better. I recommend you read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons, probably the best book ever written about satisfying your guy sexually, by clicking on the link

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  • If your boyfriend is a decent guy he won't care how bad you are at your first time giving a blow job. I think your boyfriend would be more pissed if you blew some dude while you guys were dating then you needing to learn how to give a blow job. And besides, even if you practiced on your friend all guys are different so what your friend might like your boyfriend might hate. In fact, you cannot even really be good at giving blowjobs until you experiment with the person you're with to see what they like. Experimentation is the KEY to having a fun sexual experience rathar then worrying about 'how good you are' or going through the motions of something you've done tons of time to please the other person and not both of you. You should be reading about different BJ techniques to try rathar then practicing on someone who is not your BF.

  • First time I did it to a guy I kept coming up for air and my face muscles kept tiring. It's why they call it a blowJOB. The guy thought I didn't like doing it, I just told him I was getting tired. Still he was upset with me. I look back on that and say he was being a jerk, but I wouldn't have mind practicing on another guy before then. So yeah, go for it. Just keep your teeth out of it and pay attention not to over salivate. Compress your lips and constantly fondle his boys, and move your hands around his body.

    • Thank you so much for your understanding. It's great to see another person support me practicing it on another guy, a lot critics about that ;)

    • It's difficult. You get tired and the guy is about to unload and you're thinking, "Should I swallow some of it or just let it hit my breasts?" because the first time you taste it you could grimace with distaste, and some guys get offended, others just laugh and say, 'yeah, I had too many beers earlier, is why I'm foul.'

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    Don't listen to any f***er who tells you it's OK to do it. It's wrong, it's cheating, it's f***ing disgusting. It doesn't matter how much f***ing experience you get, all guys are different. You want to please him? Tell him you're new and tell him you want tips. If he has a problem with that then he's an immature, impatient prick and you deserve to find better. It's not about being insecure or secure about yourself, it's about sharing intimate sexual things with others just for something vain and shallow. To me, it's not about the physical pleasure that makes any sexual activity great (though it's nice, no doubt) but about the emotional and mental pleasure about being able to share such with someone who isn't so freely sharing it with others. It makes it special and unique and it helps bond more. A strong bond is great.

    Don't do it. Don't listen tot he short sighted immature idiots who think it's best to practice on others, condoning cheating, just for the increased odds and pleasing him physically. You think he'd be happy with you cheating on him like that?

    I can't understand how hard this is to understand.. the key to giving your partner pleasure isn't experience (that only helps the odds on your first time, but doesn't assure anything), it's communication.

    • I will say, it really does depend on the relationship. There's only one person who you should ask and that's your boyfriend. If he's OK with it, than fine, have at it. But also think about this, would you want him doing stuff with other women even if it was the claim of "to learn more to better please you"? Nah, I still say the key to any and everything is communication.

    • That's a good suggestion to ask him if he would like me to practice first. But I'm afraid he'll think of that as cheating, and not to mention think I'm insecure. I don't want him to think I'm cheating or insecure, I just want to be an efficient oral sex giver.

    • I?m Innerspace. My girlfriend is next to me and will do the talk. Hi, I decided to ask my boyfriend. I did it during foreplay that I wanted to please him more and be more experienced just to please him. And asked what did he think...so it lead to me blowing one of our friends who poor guy was single. I got better but I needed to practice in someone diferent. I must say that each one you blow is diferent and you learn better to give pleasure. If you boyfriend says Ok, would you keep practicing?

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  • LOL!

    • Well, I tried what you suggested, & it didn't work. They just removed all the crap I put up & kept the question here. I guess I'll have to keep this question :(

    • LOL! Awh that's terrible! Hahahaha. That's hilarious, though. They're out to get you on this one ;) Ah well, the jokes wore off anyway. Its not funny any more. So I don't think anyone else will answer saying anything. Your right about all the answers being the same, too, hahaha. Its starting to annoy me now, for gods sake.

    • Thank you. You are pretty awesome by the way!

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  • Wait what?

    • t-h-e q-u-e-s-t-i-o-n i-s c-l-o-s-e-d got it?

  • Well if you need to learn how to suck still and are in norcal, hit me up ;)

  • Lol. I would answer and talk about how stupid this question is, but apparently it's closed? And what in the hell kind of class are you writing this for? A BS degree? That's bull sh*t fyi

    • Alright .? Your retarted first of all you looked up this question if its so stupid don't look it up and your comment is bs ( that's bull shyt fyi) fuhkin jerk off

    • It just showed up on the page. Lol. Thanks for the comment though :)

  • What the? Sure it might be okay to practice on someone... if you're NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP. If I was dating a guy and he had never gone down on a girl before, so practiced on another girl.. I WOULD BE LIVID. I would dump him ASAP. Why can't you just practice on a dildo or some other object? The most important thing is controlling the gag reflex, if you can desensitize that part, then you'll be on the road to giving a good BJ... no need to CHEAT just to get practice...

  • Dumb idea. Just fess up to your boyfriend that you need practice and want him to give you pointers and tell you how he likes it. That would be hot and get him horny. But practicing on other guys is cheating.

  • Listen to these words.

    If you currently have a boyfriend, and he cares about you, he will not care if you are no good, the fact that its you will be enough. The worse possible thing you could do is cheat on him with someone else for "practice", and risk ruining your relationship. Just tell him you don't really know what you are doing or better yet, search the internet on tips.

  • dude no...! Cheating on a boyfriend for his 'benefit' is NOT a good thing!

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  • haha, too funny.

    the guy will care more about your effort then how good the bj is.

    and its your boyfriend for crying out loud, yoiu are already together, you don't have to impress him, he already likes you.

    but if he finds out, he will be pissed and think you cheated on him.

  • Wow your stupid

    • haha if you want pple to stop, you gotta stop first because every time you put a link every single person that has commented gets an update, so its a vicious cycle :)

    • thank you

  • If your comfortable with your boyfriend, tell him your a bj virgin and ask him to guide you. I guarentee he will love the idea that he is teaching you how to suck his d***, ask him what feels best and get into it...if you want tips on how, just let me know lol my boyfriend is addicted to head haha

  • I straight up told my boyfriend that I had no idea and that I wanted him to guide me. He loved that because he got to teach me what HE likes and does not like. Your boyfriend should be more than willing to guide you!

    • And since many young guys are hung up on their GF's sexual "past" it would seem more fitting

  • This question should not be closed, because its hysterical lmao

    • f*** you

  • im gonna tell you the truth if your boyfreind loves you he should care if you chomp his d***head off by acsident he will like it because its you giving it to him. damn don't practice on another guy. use a banana or somthin I mean seriously just try not to bite it. not very many girls can give all that good of head anyways. right under the head on the underbelly is the most sensitive use your tounge in your mouth and move your head up and down without bitting it and you should be fine. keep your lips tight for extra points. you won't be humiliated. I personaly think its cute when a girl gives me a blowjob and doesn't quite know what she's doing. just look up at him and lick his head. yes its wrong

  • its not wrong, and its not bad, I was in your shoes 2 years ago when I first got with this guy, I really really liked him, so I practiced on his best friend giving him head whenever we could meet up. it was fun and plus I learned loads so no its not bad at all.

    the guy I was trying to get with, we've been together for over a year and he doesn't know about me and his best mate...why should he? don't worry about it

    find a guy, and practice on him loads! good luck!

    • Congrats, you're a whore. What do you think he'd do if he did find out? He'd probably break up with your ass. Why can't you women realize that it's best to practice on the man you love and wanna be with and just make sure there's clear communication. Hell, same for guys going with girls. Doesn't matter how good or bad you are, COMMUNICATE!

    • She is not a whore! Just was just trying to please her mine? Don't you see that she wants so bad to please her boyfriend that she even went and gave some BJs?

    • That sounds great. If someone had written such a good answer, this would be the best. I think it is great that your bf's best friend let you practice on him. Now you can guarantee that you give your boyfriend the best oral possible & everyone's happy in the end. It was also nice that he was your bf's best friend because he knows your boyfriend well & might know some more insight into what really makes your boyfriend happy. Ignore Leto, he is just jealous no one gives him oral sex.

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  • OMG girl, how stupid can you get XD Don't give another guy a blowjob! that's cheating! Second, blowjobs are easy as long as you're willing to give them. Just talk to your boyfriend about it tell him you're nervous and that's it! You'll practice all you want on him. he WON'T mind trust me! If you're that insecure about your skills just suck and go back and forward slow at first then speed up!

    • I'm not stupid, I'm trying to learn for my bf's benefit.

    • if you learn on him it wil be an even bigger benefit to him. his girlfriend cares for him and she doesn't cheat on him. And I'm sorry but practising on another guy?!?!?!?!? I'll just stop here, I'm just surprised, I didn't say it with a bad feeling don't get me wrong, but I was just so surprised this would even come up as an option in your head... Seriously if you want your boyfriend to benefit, practise on him, every guy wants different things, ask him what he would like, trust me!

  • First, its really wrong. Its cheating. It shouldn't matter what your boyfriend thinks of the head you give him. If he's that guy then you shouldn't be with him. But if you think its okay to PRACTICE on another, nobody should be with you. That's why the world is f***ed already.

    • first of all, THE QUESTION IS CLOSED YOU IDIOT

  • Are you insane? Practice on your boyfriend... Its like saying your boyfriend can have sex with a few girls so he won't suck when he has sex with you.

    • But I don't want to screw up when I'm doing it to my boyfriend. It's because I care about him...

    • When he finds this out he will break up with you for cheating. Its not hard to give a blowjob, just watch some p*rn or look for advise on websites.

  • I'd prefer to teach the girl myself. Plus it may be considered cheating, unless your Boyfriend and you have an open relationship

  • Practice on your boyfriend have him teach you what he likes. Ifyou are giving another guy a BJ without your boyfriend knowing that's cheating. Don't you think he'd be upset if he found out?

    • I see what your saying, I just don't want to disappoint my boyfriend, you know?

  • Are you serious... this is a real question? Alright then... OF COURSE YOUR FRIEND SAYS ITS OK FOR YOU TO GIVE HIM A BLOWIE HES AN EFFING GUY! He just wants his mo'f***in' d*** touched so don't act like HE'S doing YOU a favour.. Jeeeesus! Practice on your mo'f***in' boyfriend you cheatercheaterpumpkineater... why would he complain about an excuse for you to give him MORE blowies?!

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