Giving my boyfriend a rimjob?

ok please don't crucify me for this lol. I recently watched this p*rn video where the girls were the one's licking out the guy's a**holes and for some reason I found it so hot. I kind of want to try it with my boyfriend but I'm afraid he'll think I'm disgusting/he's said before he doesn't want anything near his butt. But if I'm giving him head and then I put my tongue down there I think it'd feel good for him right? I don't know. any advice on how to approach this/whether or not it's a good idea would be appreciated!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Look. Tell him what you saw, and how hot you thought it was, and that you'd really, really like to try it. I've stated to my girlfriends pretty much the exact same thing, but if any one of them had told me that they were really turned on by it and wanted to try it, I probably would have let them, with the stipulation that fingers and other objects stay the hell away.

    And who knows? I might discover that I like it, though I highly doubt that.

    If she just suddenly decided to do it while giving me head, I'm not sure how I'd react, but it probably wouldn't be positive.

  • I don't think you should just do it without him being ready, especially if he specifically stated that he doesn't want anything near there. Talk to him about it, explain to him that it's a turn on for you, having open lines of communication is important in all aspects of a relationship.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Mentally shallow guys (nothing wrong with that, just who they are), have quite a few hangups regarding these sorts of ideas. I know, I know, it's just a concept. I get that, but they… well, they just can't get it. Moral of the story, ask first. If it's a mental hangup for him, then honor that.

  • omg are you found it hot? lololol you must be joking right?

    we are talking about kissin an a*ss

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  • You miss, are playing with fire here. I feel the same way he does and wouldn't take too kindly to any of that. Don't be surprised if he gets mad.

  • I've got a rimjob before, and it does feel very good.

    All you can really do is ask him.

  • I am not thrilled with the idea...however...I know how important it is to me that my partner give me what I want and need...so, while I might try to discourage it, if it was important to you I would allow it...lol...make damn sure I had recently showered though...I think you should let him know that it is something you really want to try and make sure he is prepared for it mentally and physically...(:(:

  • Let's face the truth.. its amazing !

  • Hmmm...ive been wanting to try this aswell, I would just talk to him about it as a regular conversation.