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Going Down On A Girl Is Unmanly?
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I go down on my boyfriend all of the time,but he's never gone down on me and I have never been given oral sex before.So I asked him if he would go down on me,but he said "No," and just asked him why and he said "Going down on girls isn't manly and if my friends found out they'd be up my a** forever and would never leave me alone about it." And I told him,that I always go down on him,and he said "it's different for girls,going down on a girl is emasculating(sp?) and not cool,only punks do it" I never knew guys thought this way about Oral,I thought they enjoyed going down on their girlfriends or whatever,but I guess not. Do a majority of guys agree with my boyfriend?
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What Girls & Guys Said
10 25I love going down. I think he may have some problems with insecurity
Well I’m unmanly then. Lol. I love going down.
Ur boyfriends a complete arsehole, its not emasculating he's making excuse, my boyfriend does it to me b4 we have sex every time. Ask him again and if he still says no refuse to go down on him, he will soon change his mind
I agree ! +1
There is never anything wrong in sex. If its complacent. and with care and love. Its so much better. My gfs knew where they had a seat. Right on my face.
Ur boyfriend is really selfish, you shouldn't give him anymore BJ's tell him "it's disempowering for me as a women"
That is the dumbest shit I ever heard. Giving your girlfriend what she wants sexually is pretty manly in my opinion. Being afraid to do something sexual because of your ego is childish
What a jerk. No offense, but I first went down on my girlfriend to make her comfortable with the idea of going down on me. We both enjoy it immensely. It sounds like he is being selfish and has a superiority complex.
I've actually always heard it the other way around. Real men go down on their girls.
A man is someone who can please a woman. If he doesn't feel manly, ask him if he would feel more manly sucking d*ck. I love going down on women, some guys dont, but it doesn't make you less of a man.
nah he just doesn't want to
most guys love going down on girls