Hj are just lame. You should invest a little more effort and learn how to please your boyfriend properly.
Try with good bj. So listen up, here's how it's done right. In the beginning it's all about your approach. We should be initiating the blow job here and there. Guys love that. Don't be shy. Be a little aggressive and be random about it. If he's taking his morning shower, surprise him, get in there and give him oral that he'll be day dreaming about all day. Now that's what a skilled lover does. Be bold.
You're got to have confidence in your skills. So it's best to practice on something, a strap on or a vegetables, it really doesn't matter. The first to get down is the "no teeth" rule, and that means opening your jaw wide enough so that your teeth aren't scraping against your lovers penis. It's so important, if you get this wrong you'll notice a look of out right pain on your man's face.
Practice, don't worry, you'll get it down. If you're having trouble, use your lips and tongue to shield your teeth from the penis. You can learn how to do this in an afternoon if you practice and get the feeling down through muscle memory. Check put this guide here link for more tips
Remember to use your tongue is a swirling motion every now and then. Do it gently when you've stopped bobbing your head and up and down for a moment, take a quick pause, swirl and watch his erotic reaction. It's a nice change up that he'll go crazy for.
Bob up and down, so your lips just moving on it then? I thought you had to lick with your tongue, and I don't have a boyfriend anyways.
I basically do the same thing except instead of just going straight up and down I kind of twist in a corkscrew motion while I'm going back up. My boyfriend says it feels great and just the fact that it's me doing it makes it better than him doing it so ignore the guy who said bjs are the only way to go.
Corkscrew, that would be different. Yeah, I don't think I could do a blowjob, I mean they pee out of that and I wouldn't want them cumming in my mouth, I think I'd puke lol
Hahah I used to think that too but the only stuff you'd be tasting is the precum I guess which is just a little salty, it's really not that bad. And my boyfriend knows I don't want him cumming in my mouth so he taps me when he's about to finish.
Lube it up with something spit, whatever. Use to hands. Twist your hands opposite of each other, say on the up stroke left hands is clockwise and right hands is counter clock wise, on the down stroke left counter clock and right clock wise. Make sure you lube it up enough though, bit not too much our it kills the friction
if you want I can give you some tips send me a message if you like.
Technique needs to be specific to whether he's circumcised or not.
What? There's a difference for technique? Circumcised, isn't that just a tiny flap of skin the covers where you pee or whatever-I only heard what it was when I was little and I haven't really heard it since and sex ed in school was a joke apparently lol
For other sex acts it doesn't matter much, for hj, it does. Uncircumcised still has foreskin. Circumcised means the foreskin was cut off. Basically, the natural way for a penis to work is that the shaft skin is mobile, and is also 'longer' then the penis. so the shaft skin extends over the head of the penis, then doubles back on itself. you can roll it back, exposing the head. circumcision removes the excess. So if he's uncut, you can grab hold tight over the skin, and glide back and fort
From what you've said, you're dealing with circumcised guys. In that case, you either heed to rub the head, keep everything as _dry_ as possible so you can slide up and down on the head or twist your fingers over it, OR get everything as wet/slippery as possible, then jerk up and down with a twist, perhaps.
This website has some great tips & techniques: link
Interesting site, thanks :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You never just give a guy a handjob. If I wanted a good handjob I would do it myself... Use your month.
Yup...definitely use your month. Especially if that month is August... August feels so good. This guys atool. Hand jobs are amazing. Guessing his boyfriend just isn't good at them.
lol Joshuadwa hahahahaha!xD
atool?
use skin sensitive lotion. I was also checking the other man's answers and they are very good and up to date.
My previous girlfriend loved it when I placed my hand on top of hers and guided her motions as she stroked. Have your guy do that and you can easily learn how he likes it.
The best way to give a handjob, is to give a blowjob.
HJs are better than BJs.
How old are you? The only reason I ever liked handjobs was because it was like the first time I was doin anything sexual once I got a bj and had some sex handjobs sucked
A girl can never give a better HJ than a guy gives to himself several times a week, just worry about giving good BJ's and you'll be fine.
handjobs are hard for girls, you have to have the arms of a tennis player. its not worth it. guys like bjs much better anyways
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