Good Kissers...Born or Made?

I think either you are a good kisser or you aren't...some might believe that with time you develop good kissing techniques and that makes you better. what say you GAG?
If you're a good kisser you were just born with the talent/intuition to kiss well.
Vote A
Being a good kisser is something you develop over time with experience
Vote B
I really don't want to take a stand on this issue so I'll say it could be either :P
Vote C
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  • See that's what I'd like to know I was a virgin all throughout high school, then lost it a year and a half ago (go ahead laugh it up.). I mean I had my first real kiss/make-out session when I was 6yrs old with the neighbor girl who was only a few months younger than me. And until then that was pretty much the only experience I ever had, until recently then I keep getting comments on how good my kissing is it's weird. Especially from this one girl who I know has gotten around (and no didn't catch anything, always keep it safe). I'm like I don't even feel like I'm doing anything or trying real hard just feeling the heat of the moment. Maybe there is something to do with me being Latin?

  • I don't know. My first kiss was with someone much more experienced than me, and she said I was a great kisser. Everyone I've been with has always remarked about how well I kiss.

    But I don't think I was born that way, I just heard girls reliving their horror stories about the guy who tried to shove his tongue down her throat, or came at her all wide openmouthed and sh*t. I just made sure I didn't do any of that, just used the tip of my tongue, and everything was great after that. So I was basically made before I started.

    • that's a good point about hearing what not to do before you ever kiss. maybe watching movies and learning techniques that way could be part of it too. maybe you could pull me over to the other side of this issue after all lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • hahaha.Last part is cute. hahahha. Eh, idk...I believe it can be (but not always) like sex in a sense. Everyone likes different things and so you have just try it out with someone and see what they like when you're with someone new. Of course you're going to do what you've always done but they might want you to tweak it a bit if they don't like what you're doing.

  • I vote C, because I honestly think it could be either. Lemme put it to you this way: my first(and only so far) kiss was stolen from me by a guy who had had several gf's before and had had a lot of kissing experience. When he kissed me I felt like I was the one who had more experience, it was that terrible!

  • Not sure. When I had my first kiss he said I was great although I thought I sucked haha. Maybe some people are born natural lovers while others need to learn

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  • i think practice makes perfect, although a pair of full and soft lips helps

  • what makes a good kisser is a guy that can adjust his style with the girl he is with..not everyone likes the same style of kissing and good kissers male /females can adjust

  • Good kisser is obviously experience. But it's not experience with just ANY girl, but experience with one girl. That is, all people are different. Some girls like it one way, some girls like it another. Just cause one girl might find a guy a great kisser doesn't mean another girl will.

    • I don't think that it's obviously experience. I do believe that with experience you perfect your technique. I still think the skill is something good kissers just have...it's like being able to dance, either you have rhythm and you can dance or you get by dancing without it and really have to work at it but it's still a chore and you get by but you really aren't a natural at it.

    • No, it's purely practice. No one is born a good kisser. They learn it. Kissing isn't in our genetics, it's actually cultural. And dancing != kissing. But of a straw man there.

    • eh I still think either you're good at it or you're not so good at it.

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  • Neither. Nor is being gay, born or made

    Why do I know this? Because my friend who was a vegetarian for 8 years, took a bit of bacon yesterday and loved it. She's now a full fledged Omnivore.

    • Bite of*

    • and she didn't get sick?

    • Nope

  • I think it's both

    Its not just experience cos my first kiss was with a girl who'd had loads of experience and she said I was unbelievable and it was like I'd been kissing for years.. But I'm sure it's something that also gets better with experience

    I think it's like anything (take football or maths or singing for example), there are those who are naturally better at it, but practise makes you better :)

    So I vote D ;)

  • My first time kissing and I'm sure plenty of times after, I was TERRIBLE by my standards haha... And now girls always stay they love my lips, etc and wanna kiss all night... Its all about trying and adapting :)