Got fingered on the first date

Well it was a great date and at the end of the night he drove me home and we got outside and hugged..then we started making out and got in the backseat of his car. This is the first time I've let anyone finger me and I did it because I wasn't thinking and just going with it.. he also asked if I wanted to have sex but I said no and he was fine with it. Is this slutty and a bad impression on the first date?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I honestly think it is a bad impression, but we are completely different from each other, and if you think you done what's right then you believe it.

    However, since it is a first date, you really should hold out and make the guy linger longer. If you give out and let the guys have the "goods" so quick, then they will take advantage of you usually (not all the time, but 80%+) and then leave you when they get tired of it and want something new.

    Since it is the first time you've ever been fingered, then I definitely think you should have waited until dating him for longer.

  • I don't know what to tell you. lol. I honestly don't think it's the best impression especially since it's the first date. I know things can happen in the heat of the moment but I wouldn't have let him done it. =/ It's one thing if it was a surprise but he didn't even ask..he just did it? 0_o waat? lol. anyways...hope something I said answered your question. lol.

    • I would just do it. to you >:)

    • your right, I kind of feel stupid now lol thanks

    • ^_^ that was most certainly not mi intent but next time go out with a man who will respect you as well as your body. It's up to you though. Maybe the next date with someone less agressive will be better. Yeah I got mace buddy hahaha. @robotic

  • It is naughty and fun, but not wrong.

    Did you like the feeling it gave you?

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, if anything he's being a little overzealous. You're only 17. No need to rush it. When I was your age, losing my V-Card was the most important thing on my mind. The God honest truth is that I wish I gave it to someone more deserving.

    Take your time, have fun, act like an idiot. The adult world won't be so forgiving. Find someone that is more interested in you, than your vajajay. Give it to the guy that really deserves it.

  • No not really, but having sex would of been, so make sure you don't put out just yet, have some fun but keep the sex for a later date ie when you know him a lot better,x

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  • I'm disappointed in you, lady.

  • Is your age accurate?

    • no I'm 17

    • Might want to fix that.

    • It's m'eh. Its pretty fast, but hell, it was a date. Just clarify if he's seeing anyone else before going further, assuming you care. I don't think you need to spell out that much more, beyond you're dating exclusively.

  • It's not slutty, but if you give in too early he might confuse lust for love. He needs to appreciate your company before he appreciates your body if you want anything significant out of the relationship.

  • Nope if you where comfortable you are not slutty. Don't worry what others think anyway

  • what slutty ? why would only you who deserves this judgement ? lady, a guy is not called gigolo for being masturbated by his girlfriend. so you are not a slut for being fingered by your boyfriend.

  • It's called self control.

  • yes it is slutty, next time control yourself or he'll just use you

  • a little naughty