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Grinding

Girls: If I'm at a club, and I'm grinding with a girl and get a hard on is it a turnoff? Sometimes I can't help it if she is really hot and turns me on. Grinding so sexy but do girls think so?
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  • If it was my date doing it, I wouldn't mind. If it was some stranger, I'd think it was a little gross.

    It does depend on the plan for the night, though, if you're trying to "get" guys then yes, it is a goal, but if you're trying to just have fun, it's disgusting after a while.

    Also- if a girl walks away from you, and you follow her, and she walks away again, leave her alone. Whenever my friends and I go to the club we always end up getting terrorized by one or two groups of guys that just follow us and grind on us with their nasty hard dicks and it's the most obnoxious thing in the world.

    • If a girl walks away from me I def won't follow her. lol that's just creepy if I did. I'm not saying it happens all the time but sometimes it does if there is an attraction between the two

    • Haha, it's good to not be creepy. Just keep in mind that if a girl is really hot and lots of guys are trying to dance with her, it's probably happening with a significant percentage of them, and think about what it's like to be the girl in that situation. It's nice if a guy wants to actually look at your face when you're dancing with him, instead of just grinding on your butt all the time.

    • Yeah I always try and be considerate with whomever I'm dancing with.

  • Younger girls love this because it makes them feel accomplished and also because younger guys get hard easily in situations like this. For older girls, it's a little different because we already know that we're sexually capable of getting a guy hard and getting a guy off. If you're dancing with an older girl, then try the old tuck-into-the-waistband trick so they don't get weirded out and so you don't look overeager.

    • Do you really think girls would think a guys over eager if he gets a boner?

    • Well, like I said, it depends on the age/experience level of the girl. When I was 16-18 or 19, something like that would have been thrilling and I'd have felt into it and proud of myself. However, now I'm 24 and am more creeped out than impressed when a guy my age gets hard this easily, or at least doesn't know how to hide it.

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  • Yea girls think grinding is hot :) and if the guy gets a hard on, it makes us feel like we caused it and so we feel like we accomplished something haha

  • naw. that's sexy! =]

  • haha, Yess I love to grind.

    No its not a turn off for me, its more like a goal ;)

    Grinding is sexy I love to dance

    • Whats grinding?

    • Hah its like hardcore dancing up against a guy...

    • I agree, its definitely sexy to know you were able to get a guy going...

  • If anything, it's a turn ON.

  • girls deffinately like it.

    it makes us feel like we know what we are doing.

    especially younger girls.

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