Well, he wants your first experience to be unregrettable -which is a noble thing.
He might be a religious type who wants to marry you first OR he might want you to be absolutely sure you want to give it to him. In either case it seems he is waiting for you to give him permission to advance the relationship (and he is going to really want you to commit to him).
I want my first time to be special too but it seems that I am too old now for things to play out how I wanted. I'm getting antsy and really depressed from not finding a romantic partner to grow with.
I say you do what you want to do -and WHO you want to do. The older I get the worse my hell becomes, and it is hard for me to accept that it is too late to find another virgin at my age who actually wants to be with me. But the fact remains that in all likelihood I will have to settle for less or miss out on the last chance to have sex while young.
Well, if you started having sex, but then he started dating someone else down the road, you'll still be looking for love, but you won't be a virgin any more. Some people would regard this as a negative. You have to respect his honesty. You have to decide what's more important - having sex now with a nice guy just for fun, or saving your virginity for someone who is wanting a stronger relationship with you than two months of hanging out together... Has he ever discussed future plans with you? Jobs? Kids? Moving in together? If not, then he's probably just enjoying your company now (not a bad thing) but not thinking long term.
If I were you I would assure him that you wouldn't feel that way about him just for that purpose, if the two of you did end it. How do you feel about your virginity? Are you to the point where you just want to get it over with or are you still waiting for the "perfect" guy? This will determine a lot of things in the relationship, such as whether or not it will last. You need to discuss these things with him after you've come to your own conclusion.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Because a lot of virgins believe the first guy is supposed to be the greatest guy ever and if that narrative is not played out, it's because he was a jerk and messed it up by lying or doing whatever else it is that human beings tend to do.
that's odd of him
It seems that he just doesn't like the idea of bad sex.
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