Guys - Freak in Private : Lady in Public?

[Anonymous]

OK so I need male opinions, but ladies feel free to chime in. Up until now I have been a pretty conservative girl in bed. I mean I have always liked sex so my boyfriends were always busy, but I don't sleep around and even when I was having sex it was pretty straight forward, no frills really. To the outside world, I think I have seemed even a bit prudish. My new boyfriend has gotten me to try a bunch of new things. From roll playing, to talking dirty, to new positions and frankly... its all REALLY hot... but I am scared of what he is thinking about me for having done these things. I mean I have never done a lot of the things that I am doing to him and its not that I feel forced or pressured, I am just very sexually comfortable with him. Now my question: Is it true that men want a freak in private and a lady in public? I mean, I REALLY like my boyfriend and I love the things we do in bed, but I don't want him to think that I am just a straight freak and I am scared that he won't want to be with a girl long term who is willing to do dirty things in bed... thoughts? opinions? help?

[ActingOnInstinct]

As far as I'm concerned, that's the definition of a perfect girlfriend. She's a girl who doesn't dress overly sexual, who crosses her legs and uses a coaster as she sips tea (I'm exaggerating a bit), but long story short, seems like an angel to the outside world. Not to the extent that she seems boring, but seems a tad "tame". However, when her boyfriend takes her home to bed, she unleashes a crazy, lustful side of her that no one else is able to see but him. When it comes to sex, I realize that crazy is never a bad thing (from a guy's perspective) - because men view it as enthusiasm, and the last thing a man wants is a girl who can't enjoy herself in bed, or is scared to go the whole ten yards.

[TheAnswerer]

Perfectly true. We want the cute kitten to turn into a ferocious tiger in the bedroom.

[SCU2013]

yea the rapper ludacris didn't say "I wanna lady in tha street but a freak in the bed..." for nothin hahaha. like I'm kind of a freak no matter where I am hahaha, but its not like I make sexual comments in front of people I shouldnt be saying that to. lol But in front of friends and boyfriends I've had, I guess I really didn't hold back haha if something was on my mind, I said it. But its good your open to what he's doin lol. But in the end its ur opinion and you shouldnt worry about others calling you a "prude" just bcuz you don't like certain things. =)

[Anonymous]

No. if he is introducing you to these dirty things and you like it then he will like it even more. its good. and fun! so go for it! just handle yourself well in the outside world. don't be a slob and skanky. and by the way you described yourself you don't sound like one so your fine! good luck girlll

[NewYorkCity]

Yes that is a 100% true statement. We ( guys) love to get freaky in bed and do different things more then normal things. But in public we want just a normal smart girl who have a normal life with her friends and guys friends as well. Example. My friends G.F. is a real sweetheart very family girl. Down to earth person smiles a lot. Not showing her off you, got the idea. But when my friend told me lots of things that she loves in bed that just shocked me, so a little shy sweetheart in public BUT a horny devil in private. PERFECT GIRL!

[jspruill]

Its Freak in the sheets, Lady in the streets... and yes.. guys like that.

[madgal28]

My man says he likes that I'm "a lady on the street and a freak in the bed."

So, I truly would not worry. Just be classy in public, and let loose and have some fun in bed :).

[l-hedoniste]

If your boyfriend is teaching you these things, there's at least some reason to believe that he would rather you do them, than not.

[Sugashawtie]

Ha that's from that epic usher song 'yeah!' and yeah lady on the street, freak in the bed. That's good.that's how I play it!

[gucciguccigoo]

lol he is not going to think that, he is just making things with exciting with both of you and having fun, I mean I don't know but the old sutff over and over gets boring so he is just finding new things to try to keep you and him from losing interest hope I could help

[ultm81]

I like them freaky everywhere! However, when in the company of others, it needs to be a little more discreet! ; )

[Anonymous]

Yes guys love that. If you want to push him a bit see if he will let you give him a prostate massage. It gives my man explosive orgasms