Guys...would you want your girl to ask you first before giving you a hj?

[Anonymous]

I'm not experienced, but I was thinking, then next time I am making out with my boyfriend and I feel he gets hard, instead of dry humping, should I ask if he wants a hj? ( to start, of course, then work my way into bjs)... Like, while I'm on top of him, should I whisper in his ear "do you want me to rub your *ock?" Or any suggestions? Cause I think he likes the dry hjmping from what he says and his change to heavy breathing with his mouth open...but I'm not sure if he comes. I just want to make him feel good, even though I'm not ready for sex Also, I wanted to ask him because he is in meda that he made reference to before that give him sexual problems...so I don't want him to feel embarressed if I start giving him a hj and he looses his erection all of a sudden because of the meds. Also, if any guy has ever been on a high dose of adderall...did you ever have such issues? Thanks

[AidenBlue]

I can pretty much safely say we'd all prefer a hj to dry humping. I would find it unlikely that he's getting off with dry humping and you not knowing it. I mean, those are some wet drawers if so.

I think your approach is spot on. No harm in asking him and I"m pretty sure he'll say yes. To be extra special to him, take your top off too when you do it. The extra visual will sure help him get off. Feel free to bring your boobs into the game too - they are soft and feel great as an additional bonus to the hj.

Good luck! Lucky guy... ;-)

[Asker]

Well...I only have an "A" cup, so I doubt taking my shirt off will do anything for him

[AidenBlue]

Once again - there is nothing wrong with an A cup. An A cup is 500 times better than 'no cup' or your shirt on. That's my feeling. Women get too obsessed with A cup, B, cup... Guys view - just pour us a cup of whatever you got!

[Anonymous]

Don't ask him, just do it, that is so much hotter. But skip the hj, and go straight to the bj. If he's on meds, he'll be soft when you first put him in your mouth, and as a man that feels great. Suck really hard.

in the past I was on meds that made it more difficult to get hard and cum. Doing the bj right away while he's limp will make his day, trust me.

[Asker]

Ok, but how will I know when to stop if he doesn't come? How long would you at it typically takes for a guy to come from a bj, especially If he's on meds that may make things more difficult?

[Opinion Owner]

Well, you can't be down there forever, do it for 5 to 10 minutes. If you really want him to cum, put a finger up his ass while you give him the bj, that makes it a million times better for the guy, he will definitely come then.

[leximarie]

umm don't just randomly stick your finger up his ass, especially if you haven't done anything to sexual before, that can be a deal breaker for a lot of people, you should just go for the ass completely off the random that could turn out badly

[cheergurl18]

I have done that to my boyfriend sittin on the bleacher at a swim meet , I started rubbin his crotch and made him c um in his speedo :) Later I did him properly and fingered his butt, He Really Liked That :)

[emdeex]

Dont ask just do it, as nike would recommend

[taster]

Could ask if you like..or just do it...(:(:(:

[scottb80]

If you you ask in a dirty way it could be a turn on. Like ask him to show you what he's got, or something like that.

[Anonymous]

Not sure about the e.d. Thing.

But from a guys perspective... Don't say anything take his pants down and go at it. He will stop you if he doesn't want it.

The answer to do you want xxx is always yes.