Guys- why do you like it when a girl holds your head down in oral sex?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend asked me to hold his head and not let him move it away while he was going down on me... Why is that hot?

[malekoniky]

When I am there, I want to know that she likes it. I want to feel as good as possible. When she holds my head, she can direct me. I know that I am right there where it feels best and I am happy for that. One is not that uncertain when he get some feedback from a hands on head (if she wants more, harder, softer, somewhere else). (And also I like when somebody touches my head generally.)

[TheAnswerer]

Because, if you're doing it without him saying, then it means you like it so much that you don't want him to stop what he's doing.

I mean, think of it like this: You are a hairdresser that doesn't know if your customers are satisfied. Wouldn't you feel better and work harder if one of your customers said "WOW! This looks so cool!" ?

[Asker]

lol good point I guess... it's just that, like the guy above said, a few guys on the internet talk about the dominance aspect?... but that's why it confuses me. cos my boyfriend is normally so dominant in bed so it seems different coming from him... but maybe for him its what you said

[jackflynn7]

Yes, even though it is sometimes hard to breathe due to the pressure and fluid.

I like it because I know she is enjoying it.

[CuriousEddie]

I like the control aspect... that I'm there just to please her, and she is taking total control, using me as her sex toy for her own pleasure...

[DonMichelle]

It's like you have no other choice, your purpose is to pleasure her and your not getting away from it, she's in charge, your just a mouth to her... kinky ;)

[Anonymous]

That is hot to me because it shows me how much she's enjoying it. It's also hot because it makes me feel like she's in control and I'm submitting to her. I'm usually the more dominant one during sex, so it turns me on to be submissive sometimes.

[Asker]

but do you enjoy being the dominant one most of the time or do you wish she was?

[Opinion Owner]

I like being the dominant one but would like it if she would be dominant more often.