Guys, are big boobs a turn off?

To put it simply I've got pretty big boobs, 30H if you want to be exact, and yes 100% au natural. In the past I've had a lot of attention from guys but I've never really dated and I'm still a virgin. I'm with a guy at the moment and things are great, but when we're in bed together he pays hardly any attention to my boobs, he's said before he thinks they're amazing but he hardly touches them. I don't know if that's because they're a turn off or if guys tend to be distracted by things more than boobs or if it's just me being ridiculous?
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  • I think larger-chested ladies rock like roll. :P The larger the better, in my opinion. Other factors have to be there of course, but at least in my eyes, bigger chested ladies are NOT a turn off. Your size sounds awesome!

    As for why your boyfriend isn't paying attention to them, it might be he's afraid to focus on them too much. He might think that if he does so, you might think that's all he cares about. Or, he might be more a 'butt' man, or a leg man. Some guys care little for certain areas of a ladies body. Just depends on the guy.

    I'd not fret. :) And if you are still worried, I'd talk to him, ask him his thoughts!

  • He's not touching them because you're both probably young, and he's probably too nervous (or a freeze). I'm 20, my girlfriend has 30h boobs and I think they are awesome as hell. Although any bigger and I might not like them as much. They are nice to look at and play with, but if they were bigger they would just bounce around too much and annoy both me and her. When she's doing homework I'll literally just sit beside her groping them. Any guy who doesn't like 30H boobs doesn't know what life is all about. You are privileged to have such amazing boobies!

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  • You have found a man most women would kill for. A guy who actually pays attention to YOU rather than your chest like most guys. If you want him to feel your breasts more just tell him it would really turn you on if he did. Communication is key! How will he know what you like if you never tell him? The same applies for him as well.

  • I'm positive he means it if he tells you they're amazing. 100% positive. If he doesn't touch them enough, just let him know you love it when he touches your breasts. We love it when the girl tells us what turns her on, so just grab his hands, place them on your boobs and tell him to be naughty with them. Tell him to use his mouth, or toes or whatever gets your kicks on. Guys know that every girl is different, so we come to expect a little guidance as to what her preferences are.

    Don't be afraid to speak out. As long as it comes off as encouragement instead of criticism, his ego isn't going to be bruised.

  • Boobs like that are probably too big in my opinion, they're more prone to sagging and they will most likely cause back problems for the bearer.

  • Or maybe he doesn't want to pay too much attention to them, or maybe he heard something about big boobs being sensitive, or maybe (almost certainly) he has no idea what you want because you haven't yet told him.

    Speak up! Grab his hands and say "Here! Here! I want them HERE!" (A girl actually did this to me once. Got the point across, it did.)

  • He's probably is not touching them because he respects you and the time isn't right.

  • love them

  • I'm a boob/butt man. So, no, your can't turn me off, even if you have dinosaur packaging.

  • Boobs can be a turn off if they are too big. I don't know how 30H size looks like, but sounds big. I don't recommend any surgery. Just keep them. Some guys might like huge boobs.

    • alot of guys might love huge boobs...

    • I know what those 30Hs look like and they are huge. I'm a big boob lover and someone like her is rare.

  • Not a turn off..i like big b@@bs..

  • Yes they would be a huge turn off for me.

  • While I can't speak on behalf of the lad in your life, to me, larger breasts are only unappealing if they're cartoonishly disproportional to the rest of her and if her areolas are over-sized. I can say for some males, fuller chests are a major arouser in a "for the novelty of it" relationship, but not in the long "I wanna spend the rest of my life with her" run. Concerning why your boyfriend doesn't appear interested in your breasts, I don't know. Maybe he's like me: a true adorer who's ashamed to appreciate them like he desires for fear of his honey misinterpreting the affection. (My very first question on this site was a long monologue on this subject, so I understand.) Hope this response helps.

  • Im a 30hh boobs natural there massive round the way dont sag or anything and im a size 10 and only 5 foot 1 my boyfriends loves them lol

  • I don't actually believe that this is a real post, but if it is, I can't imagine many things that would get my d*ck hard faster than a pair of naked 30Hs.

  • I'd love to see what those look like... I'm curious how big they actually are

  • nope I actually prefer big boobs, one of the requirements on my checklist