Oral sex is very important for a relationship or marriage to function properly. It is easy to get into a day to day struggle to maintain attraction in the relationship - but if you are able to spice up your sex life, then there's no easier way to do it than by giving your man great oral pleasure.
Tip Number One
Focus on getting him to relax. You need to get him and yourself into a comfortable position so you can both get more pleasure from the whole experience. Over time you'll see that giving and receiving oral sex are both more of a mental than a physical thing - that's why it's very important that you mentally (physically too of course) prepare your husband or boyfriend for receiving a blow job. Turn off your cell phone, put away all potentiall distractions and play it cool. Put on some erotic music, get him to relax with words. Once he is not in his head anymore, when he stopped thinking and is in the moment - he will enjoy everything a lot more.
Tip Number Two
Keep eye contact while giving him oral. It's essential. You don't have to stare at him all the time, but he has to see you (so don't turn off the lights!), he has to see you loving every moment of being right there. And it's all in your eyes, you can see everything in the eyes. Smile, let him see the joy in your eyes, the love, the passion.
Tip Number Three
Be more seductive and naughty. Don't be afraid of going "wild" when giving oral. Have fun with it. You should go "wild" a bit and be kinky, let the "demons" out and be more open minded during the whole process. No, he's not going to think you are a “slut” if you talk dirty, he will love you for it. Men want a lady in the streets and a “ho” between the sheets. Check out
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Well here are a few majour tips:
1. Deepthroat (very basic but the best advice you may receive)
2. When his penis is in your mouth, smile + contact + sexy giggle. Trust me this drives guys wild, eye contact whilst giving a blowjob is majout sexy points!
3. Talk with his penis in your mouth. wait before you think that is a joke, seriously, have a sexy conversation when his penis is in your mouth. This works mainly because a) it's mental stimulation as is physically stimulation, the vibrations of your vocals chords creates an extra sensation to feeling of touch, the warm swoosh of breathe against the penis is mind blowing.
4. Rubbing your face across the penis, seriously again not a joke, a woman's face is one of the most softest part of her body, if you rub your face on it or rub the penis on the face that is a majour turn on
Those ar emy 4 unique golden nuggets of knowlegde, I hope you get results!
Great info, thanks Rasklat!
No worries, lemme know if you yield results!
Btw like the other posters said, enthusiasm and confidence is also a majour turn on!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Besides an ice cube, the most pleasurable blowjobs are the ones where there is considerable effort and enthusiasm from the girl. The worse blowjobs, are when the girls are doing it because they feel they have to.
Sweet!!! All the answers have been great and informative but that is just the info I was looking for. Thanks very much Littletad!
The girls that I have received the best blowjobs from were the ones that weren't self conscious. Slurping sounds are OK, don't worry about it. It usually means its a vigorous bj. Also, very wet bj's are great, don't be shy with the saliva!
Thanks Jimmy!
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